Lesbian Sex Positions

Welcome to the L word! Allow me to share with you how the best lesbian sex positions can enrich your sex life to a new level. Whether you’re new to sex with a woman and seeking advice or have years of experience and want to become a pro, these expert-recommended positions will help you and your partner reach orgasm together.

In this article, we’ll explore how to get wet quickly, orgasm every time, use objects and home materials for intensified pleasure, and master fingering and licking techniques.

“But where do we start?” Great question! From classic scissor play to experimenting with a pillow, think of it as a treasure hunt for pleasure. Each position offers new sensations and deeper connections.

Don’t forget the fun! Trying new things can lead to laughter and inside jokes. If a position doesn’t work out, laugh it off and try another. Whether you’re a seasoned lover or just starting out, there’s always something new to explore. Embrace the variety, keep experimenting, and savor every moment. The bedroom is meant to be a place of endless pleasure. Enjoy!

Why Lesbian Positions Feel so Fucking Incredible

No wonder lesbians are having the best sex ever! These positions focus on amazing clitoral stimulation and deep emotional connections. Each one offers unique sensations and plenty of body contact, turning up the heat and intimacy. Plus, with the freedom to explore and experiment, you’re bound to discover what really drives you wild. Curious why everyone wants to try sex with lesbians? It’s the unbeatable combination of pleasure and connection. Who wouldn’t want in on that fun?

Many myths about lesbian sex can skew our perceptions. A common one is that scissoring or using sex toys like strap-ons is the only way to enjoy lesbian sex. Another misconception is that one partner must take on a “male” role for true satisfaction.

These ideas are far from the truth. Ok, enough with the boring stuff—let’s get to the juice! As a true lesbian, I’ve put together the best proven orgasmic positions WITHOUT TOYS, because we don’t need them!

Tips for Starting Lesbian Foreplay

Before we get to the positions, whether she’s your date, wife, or part of a threesome, setting the right atmosphere can make the experience unforgettable. Take your time—planning everything step by step will lead to guaranteed orgasms. Trust me, you’ll remember my words. I’ll suggest usung these easy and basic steps to start:

1. Create a Romantic Atmosphere: Light some candles, use gentle scents, and have oils ready for massages. Think of soft lighting and romantic music—ambiance matters!

2. Plan a Dinner: Organize or suggest making dinner together. Everyone’s happier when they’re not hungry. Plus, cooking together can be a fun and intimate prelude.

3. Personal Hygiene: Clean yourself well, wax or shave as you prefer, and ensure fresh breath and clean underwear. Feeling fresh boosts confidence.

4. Arousal Tips: Start with slow, teasing kisses. Use your hands to explore her body gently, focusing on erogenous zones. Whisper sweet or sexy things to build anticipation. Incorporate a sensual massage with warm oils, paying special attention to areas like the neck, shoulders, and inner thighs. Think of it as a slow temptation, building up the heat gradually.

5. Set the Mood Emotionally: Compliment her, tell her what you love about her. Emotional intimacy enhances physical pleasure. Make her feel cherished and desired.

6. Incorporate Playful Elements: Bring in some fun elements like a playful game or blindfolds if you’re comfortable. A little mystery can heighten excitement.

Top 10 Best Lesbian Sex Positions (Without Sex Toys)

1. Standing Rear Entry

Stand behind her and use your hands to pleasure her. You can start by gently caressing her back, hips, and thighs, building anticipation. Then, try running your fingers lightly over her skin, teasing her with soft touches before gradually increasing pressure.

As you explore, consider mixing things up. Try rubbing her lower back or the back of her neck to add variety and heighten her arousal. You can also experiment with different speeds and rhythms, alternating between slow, sensual strokes and quicker, more intense movements.

Don’t be afraid to get creative! You can incorporate massage techniques like kneading or circular motions to stimulate her muscles and relax her body further. Or, try gently scratching her back with your nails for a shivering sensation.

2. Face to Face

Intimacy is the primary focus of the face-to-face lesbian position. Imagine two ladies, one on each side, laying face to face. A cozy, encircling cocoon is formed when their bodies squeeze together. Picture yourself gently caressing your partner’s skin. All parts of your body are touching. Wrapping your arms around each other will bring you even closer. It’s as if the two halves of the puzzle were tailor-made for each other.

Make sure to look her in the eyes. As you meet each other’s eyes, you may have profound, meaningful talks without speaking a word. It seems as if your spirits are conversing over a cup of coffee. One leg may even be slung over the other while yours entwine. A rhythm, a joyful dance, is born from this. You may create waves of pleasure by rubbing your clitorises against one other or your partner’s thigh. It’s slow, intentional, and very connected. Share a laugh, appreciate the quiet, or whisper some sweet nothings to each other.

When you’re close enough, you can almost feel the pulse, respiration, and little motions of the other person. It’s a full-body affair, not only sexual. In this position, you may feel the warmth and closeness of an intimate partner. The sort that stays with you even after the experience has ended.

3. Queening

Queening, also known as “throne” or “face-sitting,” is an exciting sex position among lesbians in which one partner sits on the face of the other. Enjoyment and mastery are the key concepts. Consider this scenario: one partner is lying on their back, often on a soft, supportive surface such as a bed. The “queen,” the other partner, puts her body over theirs so they may have passionate oral sex pleasure.

One of the most exciting parts is the element of control. The top partner controls the speed and depth. Being in charge can feel so liberating. Picture yourself behind the wheel of a racing automobile; sounds thrilling, doesn’t it? Similarly, the companion down below is totally focused on making you happy, which is a very satisfying pursuit. With their hands free, they can add some more activities if they want to.

The “queen” is able to regulate the force and pace of the movement. It’s like hitting that one note just right on a guitar, you simply know. The giving partner can feel the recipient’s sensitive touch because of the intimate nature of the event. Think of it as a chef tasting their food to ensure the flavors are exactly correct. So, being a queen is a combination of great pleasure and power play. When everything falls into place, however, it’s like winning a jackpot – a complete and utter delight.

4. 69

One of the most popular positions among lesbians is the traditional 69. Picture two bodies intertwined, head to toe, creating a beautiful circle of closeness. Both partners rest their heads on each other’s pelvises, giving and receiving oral pleasure at the same time. It’s as smooth and synchronized as a ballet, with lips touching the most sensitive spots, creating an intertwined ballet of desire.

Each touch and motion sends waves of pleasure through both bodies, deepening the intimacy and chemistry between you. Coordination is imortant though. Express your enjoyment with soft moans or gentle squeezes. Switch roles occasionally to keep things fresh. Every touch is like a sensuous conversation, conveying so much without words.

And don’t forget the funny moments. One day she might kick you while setting up 69, just laugh about it. It’s all about enjoying the experience together, going on an intimate adventure, and savoring every moment. The 69 position is perfect for those who want to give and receive in a deep, reciprocal way, striking the perfect balance of pleasure and intimacy.

5. Scissors

The Scissors is a favored and one of the best lesbian sex positions.  Facing one other, partners lay on their sides. After that, they form a crisscross pattern. Because of this, they are able to directly stimulate the clitoral area by pressing their vulvas together. Why is it so beloved? To begin with, it’s personal. When you’re face to face, you may look deeply into each other’s eyes, and share belly laughs at silly noises your bodies make. There’s a lot more perspiration than in a romantic comedy, but otherwise, it’s the same.

It’s a unique angle. Instead of focusing on penetrative sex as in more conventional positions, the emphasis here is on pressure and friction. You may adjust the tempo and amplitude at the Scissors position. Wish it would go slowly and steadily? No problem. Need something quick? Not hard to change. Furthermore, this arrangement guarantees that both partners get equal attention, so it’s a win-win situation.

In terms of stimulation, it’s fantastic. You may even massage each other’s thighs and have continual clitoral touch. It’s like discovering your ideal seating arrangement, once you do, everything falls into place. Consider trying the Scissors position if you’re seeking a change of pace with a combination of intimacy and enjoyment.

6. Tribbing

Another common sex position among lesbians is tribbing. It looks like two women are facing each other with their legs tangled together like a pretty bowl of spaghetti. They experience intense pleasure when their vulvas touch, causing a delightful friction. Here, clitoral stimulation is the main focus. Orgasms may be rather strong if rubbed constantly.

You may think of it as charging two batteries at once. There is an emotional as well as a bodily connection. When you stare into each other’s eyes, you can feel every chill. You might say it’s its own language. Gasps and giggles can blend together. Attempts to acquire the perfect angle, for example, might be hilarious to some. But wow, the show goes off like a rocket once you do. Consider the challenge of finding the perfect pitch on a worn-out record. The sound is magic once you hit it.

Not simply the destination matters in tribbing. It’s all about the journey – the joys and sorrows, the closeness. In this harmonious duet, the lovers’ rhythms sync as they surrender to the joy of being together. When it does, it’s as if everything in the universe falls into place.

7. The Slider

Cozy and personal, the Slider is a great position. Place both partners on their sides, facing each other. Their tangled legs move in a delicate scissoring pattern. When this happens, the vulvae may touch each other directly. Because of the nature of the posture, it promotes intimacy and bonding. Imagine this: after a hard day, you and your partner are lying in bed, trying to relax. You’re so near that you can feel the breath on the other person’s skin. You’re like two parts of a puzzle that fit together flawlessly.

This role is about more than just having fun; it’s also about connecting on an emotional level. You’re on equal ground, both in terms of physical and mental equality. The Slider’s ability to bring people physically closer is one of its primary attractions. Your bodies are closely intertwined, creating an exquisite symmetry. Eye contact, smiles, and secret kisses are all within your reach. In this setting, laughing and whispering are completely at ease. There is also the benefit of stimulation.

As your legs lock into a regular rhythm, you’ll feel an intense surge of pleasure from the friction between you and your partner. You may adjust the angle and pressure to get the perfect fit for both of you in this position. It’s like if you had a playlist consisting of all your favorite songs. Intimacy and pleasure are at the heart of the Slider. 

8. The Daily Grind

Moving forward, let’s discuss the Daily Grind position. Just imagine this: two women, their bodies in close contact and their legs intertwined, are facing each other. Doesn’t it seem like an intimate setting? As the name suggests, the grinding action matters most here. Typically, one person would sit on top of the other, cross-legged, with their pelvises pressed together. The partner on top moves rhythmically, swaying from side to side. The key is to keep your movements constant and steady and to locate that sweet spot. Both partners have continual clitoral pleasure from the friction caused by this action.

Consider a seesaw as an analogy. The pleasure increases with each sway as you delicately push and pull. By softly elevating their hips to match the other’s motions, the partner at the bottom of the dance may also partake in the beat. An exquisite, synchronized endeavor. They connect deeply, making plenty of eye contact. The emotional connection is just as important as the physical enjoyment.

9. The Laconic Lounger

If you’re looking for a comfortable and intimate lesbian sex position that prioritizes connection and relaxation, try the Laconic Lounger. Picture yourself and your partner lounging on a plush sofa, with one of you nestled between the other’s legs. Leaning back into the giver’s chest, the receiving partner forms a warm and supportive hug. A human lounger, if you will. Ideal for those calm nights when you just want to be close or for those sleepy Sunday mornings.

In terms of relaxation, this position is tops. The low level of physical exertion makes it a gentler option. Simply relax and let yourself be carried away by the waves of feeling. Imagine it as the sexy version of slipping into a hot, bubbling bath. An enjoyment that lasts, without a doubt. Because of closeness, access to different erogenous zones is easier. Enhance the experience with tender touches, neck kisses, and hushed murmurs. There is no need to hurry while you explore one other’s bodies

10. The Curious Cat

Encourage your partner to get on all fours. Gently and slowly, use lubricant to finger their anus with your thumb while simultaneously stimulating their vagina with your index finger. Apply pressure by bringing your fingers together from opposite directions within them to enhance their internal sensations. With your spare hand, engage in stimulating their nipples or lips. Remember, when I mentioned being a curious cat, I meant embrace curiosity fully.

Try rubbing her clit, reaching for her G-spot, or exploring some anal play if she’s into it. Don’t forget to mix it up and pay attention to her reactions. But keep checking in to make sure she’s loving it!

Tips for Enjoying Lesbian Sex

1. Know Your Anatomy: Understanding the vulva and clitoris is essential for ensuring pleasure. Many people are not well-versed in this part of the body.
2. Communicate Preferences: Discussing likes and dislikes with your partner is crucial. Not everyone enjoys the same things, so communication ensures mutual pleasure.
3. Be Honest and Open: If you’re new to lesbian sex, sharing your feelings and anxieties with your partner can enhance the experience. Honest communication helps both partners understand how to please each other.
4. Discuss Safe Sex Practices: Safe sex is important in lesbian relationships too. Talk about using dental dams for oral sex, latex gloves, finger cots for digital stimulation, and condoms on toys to ensure comfort and safety.
5. Focus on Foreplay: Start with foreplay, including kissing, touching, and teasing, builds arousal and ensures both partners are fully engaged and ready.
6. Use Lubricants: High-quality lubricants can enhance sensations and make every touch more pleasurable.
7. Explore Different Positions: Experiment with various positions to find what feels best. Each position can offer unique sensations and intimacy.
8. Incorporate Toys: I am personally not a fan but you may try vibrators, dildos, and other toys can add extra stimulation and variety to your sex life.
9. Practice Mindfulness: Being present in the moment and focusing on the sensations can enhance the experience and increase the chances of orgasm.
10. Mutual Masturbation: Watching each other can be incredibly intimate and a great way to learn what your partner enjoy

How to Lick and Finger Like a Pro

When it comes to licking and fingering, mastering the techniques can take your intimate experiences to the next level. Here’s a detailed guide to help you out:

Licking Tips

1. Hygiene Matters: Freshen up before diving in. Clean hands, trimmed nails are essential. (lesbians know)

2. Start Slow: Begin by kissing and teasing the surrounding areas. Start with gentle kisses on the inner thighs and around the vulva. This builds anticipation and temptation.

3. Focus on the Clitoral Hood:

   • Technique: Use the flat side of your tongue for broad strokes. Start with slow, gentle licks up and down the vulva, avoiding direct contact with the clitoris initially.
   • Move to the Clitoral Hood: Gradually move to the clitoral hood. Use the tip of your tongue to make small circles around it. This can build arousal without overwhelming sensitivity.
   • Swirling Motion: Try swirling your tongue in a figure-eight pattern over the hood. This variation can provide a mix of sensations.

4. Mix It Up:

   • Different Strokes: Alternate between long, slow licks and short, quick flicks. Use the flat of your tongue for broader strokes and the tip for more focused stimulation.
   • Pressure Variations: Apply different levels of pressure. Start light and gradually increase based on your partner’s reactions. Use the underside of your tongue for a softer touch and the top for firmer pressure.
   • Tongue Side: The underside of the tongue can be softer and more flexible, providing a different texture and sensation compared to the top side, which is firmer.

5. Communicate: Check in with your partner. Ask if they like what you’re doing and if they want more or less pressure. Pay attention to their body language and sounds for cues. Consistency is key once you find what works.

Fingering Tips

1. Start Slow and Shallow:

   • Caressing: Begin by gently caressing the entire vulva. Use your fingertips to lightly trace around the labia and over the clitoris without applying too much pressure.
   • Initial Insertion: When ready, gently insert one finger into the vagina. Let it rest inside for a moment to feel the textures and warmth.

2. Introduce a Second Finger:

   • Stretching: If comfortable, add a second finger. Gently stretch the vaginal opening slightly. Use a “come here” motion to target the G-spot, which is located on the front wall of the vagina about two inches in.
   • Technique: Curl your fingers upward and apply gentle pressure. Move your fingers in a steady rhythm, varying the speed and pressure to see what feels best.

3. Play with Pressure and Rhythm:

   • Pressure: Experiment with different pressure points. Light pressure can tease and build arousal, while firmer pressure can provide deeper stimulation.
   • Rhythm: Start with slow, deliberate strokes. Gradually increase the tempo as your partner’s arousal builds. Consistent rhythm can help maintain and build arousal.

4. Get Creative:

   • Free Hand: Use your free hand to caress other erogenous zones, such as the clitoris, nipples, or inner thighs.
   • Oral Stimulation: Combine fingering with oral stimulation. While your fingers are inside, use your tongue to lick and suck on the clitoris.
   • Position Changes: Try different positions for variety. Elevate your partner’s hips with pillows or change angles to target different pleasure spots.

Extra Fun Things to Consider

Trying out different lesbian sex positions is the perfect way to bring some fun and intimacy to your bedroom routine (and maybe even skip cardio for the day!). Whether you’re going with unbelievably tender Lesbian sex with full-body contact or getting into the 69 position, these moves will definitely leave your partner thanking you—and probably begging for more!

But why stop there? If you’re feeling adventurous, why not give a Threesome kink a shot? It brings a whole new experience!

The Amazon position is perfect if you want to switch up the power and let your partner take control while you sit back and enjoy the view. And if you’re in the mood to treat your lover like the queen they are, Queening is a must—there’s no better way to make them feel absolutely royal.

At the end of the day, it’s all about having fun, laughing together, and figuring out what makes you both feel amazing. So go ahead, try something new—you’ll both love every minute of it!