Table of Contents
Why Every WLW Should Try a Threesome at Least Once
If you’re a WLW (woman-loving woman) like me, being with two women at once will probably have crossed your mind. I mean, come on, you can’t deny it’s a sexy fantasy! I remember my first female three-way – it was mind-blowing!
WLW threesomes can be intensely erotic, but it’s important everyone is on the same page to avoid any jealousy or drama. The right position can help with that. To inspire you, this article includes 10 of the best WLW threesome positions, as well as some tips for beginners.
1. Threesome Foreplay
Let’s be honest: foreplay is one of the best bits of woman-on-woman sex. It’s all about exploring each other’s bodies, being sensual and tactile, and building anticipation!
There are plenty of ways you can enjoy foreplay with three women – touch each other, kiss each other, and explore each other’s bodies with your tongues!
Start slow by locking eyes, flashing a teasing smile, and softly grazing your fingers along her skin. Let your lips brush against hers before deepening the kiss, tracing her jawline, and trailing kisses down her neck. Whisper something naughty in her ear, run your hands over her curves, and let the tension build until none of you can wait any longer…
2. Watch and Learn
OK, I have to be honest, this is one of my absolute favorite female threesome positions.
One of you lies back between their lover’s legs while the third person gives them oral. The person at the back has their hands free to play over sensitive spots, teasing nipples, kissing and collecting moans from the middle lover and feel her every reaction up close.
3. Queening and Scissoring
Let’s face it, if you’re a WLW, you probably love queening! And so many of us enjoy scissoring, so why not pair the two together?
With one partner seated comfortably on their lover’s face, the third can slide in between for a grinding. Meanwhile, the two partners with free mouths can tease, kiss, and explore each other with every moan, making this a truly heavenly threesome experience.
4. Three Way Lotus
I love the three-way lotus position for sensual foreplay, mutual masturbation, and passionate intimacy.
Like the original lotus position, two partners sit facing each other. The third partner can sit behind the pair, intertwining their legs with the other two.
5. The Oral Train
Like a train, each of you gets behind the other, with two lovers giving oral to the person in front of them. Now, that’s the kind of train I can get on board with!
The lucky person in the middle gets to both give and receive pleasure (you can switch positions to share the joy).
6. Double Oral
What’s better than receiving oral from one tongue – well, how about two tongues at once?! Amazing, right?
This is a great way to double the pleasure. If you’re open to some analingus, one partner can lick the anus while the other can focus on the pussy. And if you’re curious about the best ways to give it a try, check out our guide to analingus positions.
7. Mutual Masturbation
Mutual masturbation is great fun. Get those hands to work, ladies!
Why not sit or lie next to each other and masturbate yourselves while kissing and touching each other’s bodies? Or you can reach across and finger each other (this is my preferred option).
8. The Daisy Chain
Who doesn’t love oral? Multiply it by three, and you’re in for an incredible night!
With the daisy chain position, you lie in a circle, all giving another person oral at the same time. I love this option even more than the oral train because it allows everyone to give and receive at the same time! Plus, it’s accessible if you’re disabled.
9. Strap On Train
If you love a bit of strap action, you can double it so two people are being fucked at once.
You can do this in lots of different positions. One of my favorites is to have one person lying on their back on the bed, another on top of them penetrating them, and then the third person standing to enter the middle person from behind.
10. Double Penetration
Fancy some double penetration? Grab those straps ready, girls!
Choose a lucky middle partner and have them ride one of you and get fucked anally from behind by the other. Hello, intense orgasm!
Tempting Tips to Guide You
If you’re ready to give it a go, here are some of my top tips to help you get started:
Make sure it’s what you want: The reality of a threesome can be different than you expect (especially if you’re used to monogamous relationships). Jealousy and insecurities can rear their ugly heads quite quickly. Make sure it’s really what you (and everyone else involved) want.
Communicate: Since there are three people involved, it’s a bit more complex. So take your time to chat and get on the same page. Make sure you know everyone’s boundaries and that everyone consents.
Be safe: This is the boring bit – but it’s necessary! Use protection like dental dams and consider when each of you last had a sexual health test.
Don’t be creepy: Make sure you approach your search for lovers respectfully. This is even more important if you’re in a partnership and are trying to find a third. Be tactful, read the room, and make sure everyone involved feels respected and not objectified.
Use lube: If you’re using sex toys or engaging in anal play, don’t forget the lube. You might want to use lube in other positions too, especially when scissoring.
Try toys: Toys make sex so much more fun. I’d recommend products like vibrators, double-ended dildos, and, of course, strap-ons!
Keep everyone involved: With three partners, there’s always a risk that someone is going to feel left out. Make sure you include everyone at all times. Choosing one of the threesome positions we’ve discussed can help with this.
Don’t worry if something goes wrong: Don’t expect a WLW threesome to look like it does in porn. It’s probably going to be a bit awkward and will take a while to get the hang of. Try not to take it too seriously or worry. Do what feels good, and if something goes wrong, try to just have a giggle and move on.
Remember aftercare: Take some time afterward to check in with each other and make each other feel valued. This can be as simple as cuddling or sharing some food.
Your Turn to Give It a Try
A threesome between three women can be a magical, empowering, and sexy experience. It’s full of passion and exploration. Just make sure you take your time, find the right lovers, and focus on mutual pleasure and respect. Now grab your lovers and go and have fun!
