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I was already pregnant when I got married at seventeen. But as I’d begun fucking when I was fourteen, I’d had a good, three years of fun playing around on my own…all of which I owe to my two brothers.
One was a year older than me, and the other a year younger. One day, they found me messing about quite innocently with some boys at school. They blackmailed me, threatening all sorts of things; they said that if I didn’t go all the way with those boys—and let them watch—they’d tell our parents what I’d been up to.
Since what I’d been up to was far more innocent than what they wanted me to do, I don’t know why I gave in to their threats. I suppose because I quite simply wanted to be fucked…
Although neither of my brothers ever entered me themselves, they do in my fantasies. They always have.
Welcome to the world of Incest kink!
At KYS, we’re here to clear up any misconceptions or concerns you might have about this topic. Our goal is to give you a better understanding of what it’s like to experience incest fetish or how to understand someone who enjoys it.
What Exactly is the Incest Kink?
Incest itself is any kind of sexual activity between close family members. It is often met with shock, confusion, and strong moral condemnation. But it is also a very common fantasy among many men and women.
As you know, family relationships are built on trust and care, so sometimes people wish to cross these boundaries and rebel against social norms. While incest is not something you will often hear people speak, it often shows up in fantasies, literature, and psychology. People who have incest kink are often influenced by different emotional or psychological reasons.
These incest desires are usually not about the sex itself but come from complex family roles, early sexual experiences, or unmet emotional needs.
This narrative at the beginning of the article highlights a common theme in incestuous desires — the involvement of family members in early sexual development, often through non-sexual yet transgressive interactions. In other words these interactions can plant the seeds for later fantasies or desires.
The reasons for incest fetishes can be different for everyone, but they often come from emotional needs, unresolved feelings, or power struggles mixed with sexual curiosity.
How Common is an Incest Fantasy?
Incest is one of the oldest and most powerful taboos, present in nearly every culture throughout history. Surprisingly, incestuous fantasies are not as uncommon as people might think. Many people may occasionally have fantasies involving family members, but it’s important to understand that fantasies are part of human imagination and don’t necessarily reflect real-life desires. Equally important is recognizing that, such fantasies should not be confused with sexual abuse.
Interestingly, not all countries criminalize consensual incest between adults. For example, places like France, the Netherlands, Spain, and Japan do not punish consensual relationships between consenting adults, though they have strict laws protecting minors and ensuring consent.
Are Incest Fantasies Healthy and Acceptable?
When it comes to whether these fantasies are healthy or acceptable, it’s essential to remember that fantasies, by nature, are personal and often explore ideas that go beyond traditional morals.
They don’t define a person’s character or intentions. What’s most important is how people feel about their fantasies and how they manage them. As with any fantasy, what really matters is to learn to distinguish between the imagination and real-life actions.
It’s totally fine to have fantasies. Meaning, just because you imagine hooking up with your Hot Mum doesn’t mean you should start knitting her a “World’s Hottest Mum” sweater…
What matters most is how we handle these fantasies and your incest fetish in relation to ourselves and the world around us. Keep it in your head, NOT the bottom one…
Why Are People Into Incest?
I guess what mostly makes it so tempting is the fact that it is forbidden. People, like animals, are born to be free and do not like when someone forbids them from doing something. They always have the urge to break the law, cross the line, etc., simply because curiosity and adrenaline drive them.
It’s like saying, “Who are you to tell me what I can and cannot do? I will go and take it regardless.” It’s in our nature! Even as kids, we test these grounds, often playing with fire.
Like with other risky fetishes, (like edging, voyeurism and exhibitionism) the main focus is on the emotional intensity or the perceived risk, not the literal desire.
Incest fetish may also be related to more complex issues of control, dominance, or the reversal of typical family roles. Making it another potential factor of why people are drawn to it.
In other words, incest fantasies offer the thrill of playing with fire but in a safe, fictional space.
Despite what the media might suggest, incest fantasies are more about psychology than real-life desires. As long as these thoughts stay in consensual and imaginative spaces, they don’t mean someone actually wants a family relationship like that. It’s just another way our minds explore things we’d never act on in real life.
What Can I do If I Have Sexual Fantasies and Sexual Attraction to my Family Member?
An again. if you’re feeling sexual fantasies or attraction toward a family member, it’s essential to know that fantasies don’t always reflect real intentions. People have all kinds of fantasies, and many are purely imaginative and not something they would ever act on in real life.
In fact, having sexual thoughts about someone, even a family member, doesn’t necessarily mean there’s something wrong with you. Fantasies can be complex, sometimes reflecting emotional connections, curiosity, or even stress relief.
I’ll suggest to focus on how you respond to these feelings. If the fantasies cause you distress or make you uncomfortable, it can be helpful to seek guidance from a therapist who can help you understand the feelings and work through them in a safe, non-judgmental space.
If going to therapist is not something you are looking for at the moment, you may also find the article on Healthy Lust vs. Unhealthy Lust. very insightful.
In addition, therapies like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) or exposure therapy are commonly used to address unwanted or intrusive thoughts.
Many people fantasize about things they would never do, and that’s okay. You are not defined by your fantasies as long as you respect real-life boundaries and consent.
I got you, it’s perfectly natural to feel confused, but exploring these feelings with a professional or learning to redirect your thoughts can be a healthy way to process them.
Practical Tips for Coping with Incestuous Sexual Feelings
Here you’ll find tips for managing incest fantasies in a productive and non-judgmental way:
Seek Safe Exploration Through Roleplay
If you’re ready to make it practical, try roleplaying with someone willing to participate. It could be your partner dressing up for the part, or, if that’s not an option, consider a webcam service where someone can pretend and play out the sexual relationships with your mum, sister, brother, or whoever fits your fantasy. Plenty of people out there are open to bringing your fantasies to life in a safe virtual environment for a small fee, allowing you to be yourself in the world of your desired fetish.
Another low-risk way to explore it is through online roleplay communities, like r/IncestClub on Reddit, where users engage in text-based roleplays.
Watch Incest Porn or Read Incest Erotica
Watching incest porn live on webcam, or simply watching a recorded video or reading erotica related to this kink can also help you safely engage with these fantasies. Our Website for example is offering several BDSM and other role play guides that you might find interesting for you.
Therapy and Emotional Support
If these fantasies cause distress or confusion, or if you’re unsure how to handle them, seeking out a kink-aware therapist can help. Therapists experienced in sexual health can guide you through these emotions without judgment. If you are afraid of your attraction to a family member, you may find support here.
Keep Fantasies Inside your Imagination
It’s completely normal to have fantasies that you never plan to act on.
Remember, it’s common for people to have fantasies about forbidden things. As long as you keep them in your imagination and they don’t cross into real life, it’s a normal part of healthy sexuality.
Many people like to fantasize about fucking futanaries and engage with other animal looking creatures. Just know that, these fantasies can be explored in your online or simply in your imagination or with people who understand them, without harming anyone.
Be mindful of consent and the impact these actions would have if taken outside the fantasy.
I personally like to hang out on FetLife or similar adult platforms where people can connect and freely talk about their kinks.
Ah, and if you’re curious about exploring fantasies about something forbidden, like incest, you may also like our articles on Teacher Kink, Daddy Kink or Age Play.
Conclusion
I know how exciting you could get from the topic such as incest kink but I also understand how difficult it must be for you to try to find a way to release your imagination.
Don’t rush to label yourself or feel guilty about your imagination. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for what goes on in your mind. Live your incest kink fantasies and allow yourself to explore them in gentle and consensual ways. There’s no shame in having a vivid imagination, you’re in control of how far it goes.