Get Closer and Go Deeper with Sideways Sex Positions
Want to explore new, comfortable, and intimate ways to connect with your partner? Side sex positions are the perfect blend of closeness and relaxation.
In this article, we’ll cover the top eight sideways positions. These positions can work for either vaginal or anal penetration. They’re great for couples of any gender pairing (think sex toys like strap ons for couples who are both vulva owners). Let’s get started!
1. Classic Spooning
Spooning is a classic side-by-side sex position. Both partners lie on their side facing the same way, the penetrating partner behind the other. It’s the same position as spooning when you’re cuddling.
The penetrating partner can raise themselves up slightly and adjust the angle of their hips to get the best access. Both partners can also adjust their legs to figure out what works best.
This position is perfect for gentle thrusts and deep penetration. I find it’s also very intimate because there’s so much skin to skin contact.
Your hands are free to explore each other’s body, caressing and offering gentle touches to increase pleasure.
2. Lazy Lap Dance
This is very similar to the classic spooning position, except the receiving partner is a bit higher up their partner’s body and has their knees bent towards their chest. Imagine the receiver giving their lover a sideways lap dance! The penetrating partner can reach around to tease their lover’s nipples, kiss their neck, or whisper some erotic words in their ear.
I like this option because it’s accessible if you’re disabled and can easily be adapted. It’s also great if you have height or weight differences.
It allows for the same level of intimacy and pleasure as the classic spooning position, with a few adjustments.
I highly recommend adding in a clitoral vibrator or a vibrating butt plug in this position to make things even sexier.
3. T-bone position
Nope, it’s not a steak, but it’s just as tasty (sorry vegans)!
The T bone is a sex position where the receiving partner lies on their back and the penetrating partner lies on their side perpendicular to them. Their bodies form a ‘T’ shape, hence the name.
This position feels incredible! It allows for unique thrusting angles, deep penetration, and plenty of hands-on action.
It’s fantastic for people who love eye contact and passionate sex. Plus, you get a great view of your partner’s body.
A big perk of this position is the easy access to extra stimulation – partners can use their hands or toys for added pleasure.
4. Sideways Missionary
We all know the missionary position, right? It’s great, but sometimes it’s just not quite enough! If you want to shake things up a bit, turn it on its side!
The sideways missionary position has all the same benefits of deep intimacy, romance, and sensual sex. You can explore each other’s bodies, setting nerves alight with teasing touches. It’s like a hug and sex at the same time – what a winning combination!
It’s ideal for relaxed, ‘lazy’ sex, and is incredibly accessible for disabled bodies.
5. Side Straddle
I love being on top when I’m the receiving partner, so this is one of my top choices for side sex positions.
In the side straddle position, the penetrating partner lies on their back while the receiver straddles them, facing sideways.
The receiver is the one in control in this position, which is great fun!
If you’re the person on top, you can lean forward or backward to see which angles you both like. You can bounce up and down or grind, whatever feels best for you.
6. Pretzel
Introducing the pretzel position – another sex position just as tasty as the food it’s named after!
The receiver lies on their side in this position. They spread their legs and lift their top leg, keeping it bent a bit towards their chest.
The penetrating partner straddles their lover’s lower leg and supports their weight on their knees. They can use their hand to support their lover’s lifted leg or explore their partner’s body.
I like this position for slow grinding rather than hard, fast sex. I particularly enjoy this option as the giver with the use of a strap on, because you can lean in and kiss your partner passionately.
7. Cork Screw
Twist your body like a corkscrew with this intense side sex position!
The receiving partner lies on their side with their legs together and knees bent. They twist their torso so they’re facing upward. You can move your hands over each other’s bodies and watch the reactions on each other’s faces.
The penetrating partner kneels to enter them from behind. This creates a tight, angled fit that feels awesome. The twisted angle allows for G-spot and A-spot stimulation.
This position is a good choice if either partner is plus sized with a large tummy, because there’s plenty of room.
8. Scissors
We’ve all heard of scissoring, right? It’s a favorite position among many women-loving-women (WLW). But it’s not just for two people with vulvas, it can work for penetration too!
One person lies on their back and the other lies on their side. You intertwine your legs and body until your genitals are touching or you have the right angle for penetration. Finding the right angle might take some adjustments.
You can use your hands for extra manual stimulation to enhance pleasure. Scissors technique is about slow grinding and sensual pleasure rather than deep penetration. But when it’s done right, it can feel fantastic.
Seductive Side Sex Tips
Ready to try some of these side sex positions for yourself?
Here are some of my top tips:
Talk to each other to make sure you’re on the same page and that you both fully consent.
Side sex is great for romance, so set the scene with some candles and soft music.
Begin with cuddling and plenty of sensual foreplay to get yourselves in the mood. Don’t rush it!
These positions are perfect for adding in sex toys. Don’t be afraid to get inventive and try some new toys.
Sensual kinks like sensory play, temperature play, and some light bondage pair very well with these positions if you’re open to it.
Use lube to reduce friction, help things run more smoothly, and keep things comfortable (especially if you’re engaging in anal penetration).
Try a few different side sex positions to see what feels best for you both.
Don’t forget the protection. Keep your sex safe!
Your Turn to Try It
Whether you’re looking to slow things down or explore new sensations, these side positions offer something for everyone.
So, why not give them a try and see how they can enhance your intimate moments? Remember that mutual consent and respect are key (as well as fun, of course).
