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How to Try Pleasurable but Dangerous Reverse Cowgirl Position

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Reverse Cowgirl Sex Position

If you’re wondering what cool new position to try in bed tonight to surprise your lover, look no more, you have just found it! If you haven’t tried the Reverse Cowgirl Pose yet, you’re missing something exciting!

The Reverse Cowgirl is an ideal sex position in which one partner sits on top of the other, facing away from them. It’s a variation of the classic cowgirl position. Trying this position is a way to break the routine and try something new. In the reverse cowgirl position the partner on top has most of the control and does most of the moving, while the partner on the bottom lies on their back.

Keep reading to find out how to master this position in sex and make it right.

Sitting up cowgirl sex position
Classic Cowgirl

What Is Reverse Cowgirl  Position and Why Should You Try It?

Reverse Cowgirl is one of the Kama Sutra sex positions where the receiving partner on top faces away from the penetrating partner lying on their back, giving the top partner full control over movement, while the bottom partner enjoys the physical stimulation.

It’s exciting because offers a fresh new way to explore your sex life. With specific angles and sensations, this position can bring new physical and emotional experiences into your intimate moments.

Why Reverse Cowgirl Feels So Good?

Reverse Cowgirl feels great for several reasons:

  1. Control: In this position, the person on top is in complete control, allowing them to set the rhythm, speed, and depth. This can be especially empowering and enjoyable as it allows for personalized movement that targets specific pleasure points like the G-spot or prostate​.

  2. Unique Sensations: Reverse Cowgirl offers a distinct angle that can create sensations not possible in other positions. The position allows for deeper penetration, which can be particularly stimulating for both partners​.

  3. Visual Appeal: For the partner on the bottom, it provides a visually stimulating experience. They get to watch their partner in action, which certainly adds to the excitement and intensity to the moment.

  4. Variety of Movements: The top partner can experiment with different motions—rocking, grinding, or bouncing! All of which provide a range of different sensations. This diversity keeps the whole sex experience fresh and exciting for both.

Benefits of Reverse Cowgirl Position/Cowboy Position

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Going further, lets have a look at the benefits of it for both and separately.

What’s in it for Her

For women, Reverse Cowgirl offers empowerment. In the ancient Kama Sutra text, Reverse Cowgirl is called “The Tigress.” Which perfectly makes sense, when you experience it, you feel like a tigress in control.

In this position the woman is in charge, controlling the pace, depth, and rhythm of each thrust and penetration. While her head and body face the man’s feet, she is sitting on his penis with her hands on his knees for extra support. This way she might feel stimulation in new and different areas of her body.

It really can be a major confidence booster, allowing you to focus entirely on what feels good for you!

Plus, it’s an opportunity to clearly demand your pleasure from your partner. Experiment with leaning forward or backward slightly, or use a pillow under your knees for extra stability. This way, you can find the perfect angle to stimulate the woman’s vagina and G-spot, making the experience even more enjoyable.

Why Is Reverse Cowgirl Works So Good for Women?

First of all, it brings a lot of physical pleasure to women, but there’s also an emotional aspect. Reverse Cowgirl is especially empowering for women because it gives them the opportunity to be in charge, a little dominant, and on top! She’ll be enjoying it even more if she likes to take on dominant roles sometimes.

If you are a confident guy, you will enjoy your woman(or man) riding in this and other dominant sex positions, while others, less confident guys, might not.

Just know that there’s nothing shameful about letting your tigress ride you. Like Queen Daenerys riding her Khal Drogo. It will only strengthen your connection with your partner while boosting her confidence in bed.

What’s in it for Him

For men, Reverse Cowgirl is both visually and physically rewarding. You can lie back, grab her thighs, and enjoy watching her ass bouncing! This position is ideal for those who don’t prioritize eye contact, even though it can make you feel closer. But hey, no judgment—just saying.

In fact, Reverse Cowgirl is a bit like playing Nude Tetris. You’re both trying to find the perfect angle, fit, and rhythm to make everything line up just right….. and then it clicks! It feel like: Fuck yes, that’s it!

In this position, as the man lies back, he can simply enjoy watching her in action while still experiencing deep penetration. Since the partner on top is in control, the one on the bottom can relax and fully enjoy the moment without the pressure of maintaining the rhythm.

If needed, placing a pillow under your hips can help adjust the angle for better comfort. And don’t forget to use lubrication to keep everything feeling smooth, especially if you are skipping the foreplay.

Squatting cowgirl sex position

Tips to Improve Reverse Cowgirl Sex Position

There are plenty of ways to make this position even more exciting. Before you try Reverse Cowgirl, bring it up to your partner: “Hey, how do you feel about trying Reverse Cowgirl tonight?”

Other tips from KYS sex expert team include:

  • Adjust position. Partner on top could be holding to the headboard for leverage can keep things interactive and fresh. On top of that instead of just moving up and down, experiment with rock or grind motions.

  • Sex Toys and Extras. On top of using a cushion that was mentioned previously. You can also experiment with butt plug or even a small vibrator on the clitoris or prostate for extra stimulation to make them feel OMFG!

  • Switch Angles. She should try experiment with leaning forward or backward slightly to find that exact spot that will make her legs shake and reach orgasm.

  • Anal Intercourse. You can also experiment with this position by having an anal sex. For more anal sex ideas make sure to check our article on anal sex positions.

  • Engage Muscles. Engaging your core muscles will help you control the depth and pace of penetration, making it easier to maintain a steady rhythm.

  • Ongoing Communication. During sex, keep the balanced conversation flowing with questions like, “Does this angle feel good?” or “Do you want me to go faster or slower?” Non-verbal cues like a gentle squeeze or a loving grab can also say a lot. Don’t overdo the talking during sex though, it can simply distract your partner from cuming.

Comfort and Safety

Like with any sexual activity, hygiene and safety are important. Make sure both partners are comfortable, clean, and ready for the experience. It’s a good idea to have lubrication on hand to prevent any discomfort or friction during penetration. If you are outside and lubrication is out of reach, make sure to use plenty of natural lubrication, mouth saliva, or make her wet with foreplay so she won’t need any at all.

Why Reverse Cowgirl is Considered the Most Dangerous Sex Position?

Did you know Reverse Cowgirl has been labelled the “most dangerous sex position“?

Studies show that it accounts for nearly 50% of penile fracture due to the potential for awkward body positioning. If partner on top moves too quickly or misaligns during thrusting, the bottom partner’s penis can bend at an awkward angle, potentially causing injury.

But don’t let this scare you off! You can avoid any mishaps by mothing smoothly and be mindful of each other’s comfort.

Are There Any Dangers? How to Avoid the ‘Dangers’ Involved

Though fun, Reverse Cowgirl does require some caution. As previously mentioned, if the active partner moves too aggressively or at an odd angle, there’s a risk of injury, particularly to the penis.

To prevent injury in reverse cowgirl, make sure to keep movements steady and communicate throughout the experience. Adjusting the speed or angle as needed will help keep things safe while ensuring maximum pleasure for both partners. Always listen to each other’s feedback, and make adjustments accordingly.

Position Variations and Final Thoughts

Remember, before you get in, get to know the basics of Reverse Cowgirl expert tips mentioned in this article.

Then, if your first try at Reverse Cowgirl doesn’t go as planned—maybe the angle was off or you felt a bit awkward—don’t give up on it just yet.

If you think it could be more fun with a little more practice or a smoother setup, it’s definitely worth trying again.

Like most new sex positions, whether it’s the regular Cowgirl position, or the  Betty Rocker variation:

Betty Rocker

Betty Rocker Sex Position


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It can take a bit of time to really get into the rhythm, but that learning curve can actually be part of the fun!  Just make sure to prioritize what feels good, keep safety in mind, and may your experience be filled with fantastic sex and mind-blowing orgasms!

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Olivia Moore Author & Content Creator
A passionate storyteller with a deep curiosity for exploring the world of kink and fetishes. My background in psychology drives my fascination with human desires and the stories we rarely share. 🖤✨