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Car sex positions
As he drove, I watched the muscles in his arms flex, his manly hands on the wheel. He was so hot!
“Pull over somewhere”, I said. He looked at me surprised, so I said, “I want you now.”
He grinned and turned the car towards a local forest. He pulled into a scheduled spot, away from the road, amongst the trees.
As soon as he turned the car off I leaned in to kiss him passionately, my heart racing.
“This is so hot,” he said with desire in his eyes.
We climbed into the back seat eagerly. I unzipped his jeans, releasing his rock hard cock. I pulled up my skirt and straddled him.
We both moaned with pleasure as he entered me and we allowed ourselves to get lost in the moment…
Car sex is incredibly popular. You’ve probably seen it in movies and TV shows. Remember that famous scene in “Titanic” where Jack and Rose fogged up the windows? Or the 90s film “Below Utopia” where Alyssa Milano gets hot and heavy with her co-star?
Sex in a car is thrilling and it feels naughty. For a lot of people, their first sexual experience was in a car! I certainly had plenty of sexy experiences in cars and even tractors in my teenage years and early twenties (yes, I did say tractors, but that’s a story for another time).
Whether you want to relive your younger days or you’re interested in trying sex in a car for the first time, you’re in the right place. This article will tell you everything you need to know about car sex, including the best car sex positions.
Rev your engines and let’s get started!
Why Do People Like Car Sex?
You can probably think of a few reasons that people like car sex – there are plenty!
For many younger people, cars are the only places they can have some privacy to explore sex. The same can be said for those having affairs or other discreet sexual relationships.
But sex in a car isn’t just about necessity. It’s also about pleasure!
People like it because it’s fun! Just like people enjoy exploring new sex positions as well as kinks and fetishes, sex in a car can keep things fresh and interesting.
When you think back to some of your first sexual experiences and the pure excitement of discovering sex for the first time, does it make you smile? Does it turn you on? If so, you’re not alone! For many people, having steamy sex in a car reminds them of when they were younger, which is exciting in itself.
Sometimes you just can’t wait until you get home to fuck your partner because they’re so sexy! I’ve had this experience plenty of times.
As an added bonus, you can drive to any location and get naughty there. Fancy sex near a beach? You’ve got it! Or how about in the middle of a beautiful forest surrounded by nature? Go for it! The world is your oyster.
Being in such tight quarters requires creativity to have good sex. Some people love this challenge!
One of the best parts of car sex is that it can work for any consenting adults, regardless of gender, body parts, or sexuality.
Is Car Sex Legal?
You might be wondering: “But is having sex in a car breaking the law?” The idea of getting caught is sexy, but in reality, you don’t want to get in trouble or run into legal issues. Let’s take a closer look at legal considerations so you can make an informed decision.
It’s important to note that laws will vary depending on the country and state you live in.
Generally, having sex in a car isn’t illegal. However, having sex in public is illegal. So, it’s vital you pick a secluded location away from others.
Engaging in sexual activity in a visible location may result in legal charges, so it’s best to choose private property or remote areas where the act isn’t observable. If other people can see you, you could get charged with public indecency and lewd conduct. Being interrupted by a police officer isn’t very sexy (unless you’re doing some roleplay, but that’s a different matter).
Utilizing tinted windows or window covers and selecting isolated areas can enhance privacy and make the experience more enjoyable. The less visible you are, the lower the chances of attracting unwanted attention.
10 Best Car Sex Positions
So, now that we know why car sex is so much fun, let’s take a look at the best car sex positions to give you some inspiration.
1. Passenger Seat CarGirl
This is a take on the classic ‘cowgirl’ position. The cargirl sex position involves the receiving partner straddling the penetrating partner.
The front passenger seat is a great option for this car sex position. You can recline it back as far as possible to give you plenty of room. You can even use the door handles for stability.
This is my favorite way to have sex in a car because it offers clitoral stimulation and if you’re on top, it allows you to control the depth and pace.
2. Reverse CarGirl
The reverse cargirl is the car sex version of the reverse cowgirl. Like cowgirl, the reverse cowgirl position gives the receiving partner control over depth and rhythm.
In this position, the penetrating partner sits in either the driver or passenger seat. The receiving partner turns away from the penetrating partner and straddles them.
The receiving partner can use the glove compartment or even the steering wheel for added support. Focusing on grinding back and forth instead of bouncing can enhance comfort and pleasure. I find this particularly useful in cars with low ceilings.
3. The Lotus
This position is another favorite of mine. The lotus position comes from the world of tantric sex and is fantastic for more romantic sex if that’s the vibe you want. If you prefer something hard and fast, you can skip this one.
The person with the penis or sex toy sits with their legs crossed on the car seat (any of the car seats will work). The person being penetrated climbs on top of them, sits in their lap, and wraps their legs around them. You hold each other for support, sort of like a sexy hug. Then rock back and forth, and enjoy!
4. The Side Spoon
The side spoon is another more romantic, intimate position. Both partners lie on their sides, usually in the backseat as there’s more room.
You can choose to ‘spoon’, with the receiving partner facing away from the penetrating partner. Or you can face each other if you prefer. This is a great option if you want to explore one another with your hands or use sex toys rather than focusing solely on penetration.
Since you’re both lying down for this one, you won’t have to worry about accidentally banging your head on the car roof. We’ve all been there!
5. Back Seat Doggy Style
We all know the doggy-style position – it’s incredibly popular and with good reason! The receiving partner positions themselves on all fours while the penetrating partner kneels behind, allowing for deep penetration and G-spot stimulation.
Doggy style is best in the back seat where you have plenty of room. If you’re like me, you’ll also enjoy some spanking during doggy style. It’s also an excellent option for anal sex.
6. The Reclined Missionary
The reclined missionary is a modified missionary position that works well in the back seat. Reclining the seats and adjusting leg positions allow couples to enjoy deep penetration and intimate face-to-face contact.
The receiving partner can bend their knees or throw a leg over the top of the seat for added comfort. Although, in my experience, it can be difficult to get comfy in this position.
This car sex position allows for adjustments, like placing one knee on the floor and one on the seat, to enhance comfort.
7. The Spider
The spider is a great car sex position for clitoral stimulation and allows for some very deep penetration. It’s a little trickier than some of the other sex positions we’ve talked about. This one is best in the back seat where you have the most room.
Both partners sit facing one another, with their legs towards each other. The legs should be bent and each person’s weight supported by their arms.
The receiving partner should be between the penetrating partner’s legs, with their legs at either side of the ‘giver’s’ hips. The ‘giver’ moves forward to penetrate their lover. Then both partners can rock back and forth in rhythm together.
8. The Seashell
The seashell is great for cars with limited space. It’s also incredible for either clitoral or G-spot stimulation depending on the angle you choose.
The receiving partner lies on the back seat on their back, with their legs raised and ankles as close to their shoulders as they can get them. If you can get your legs behind your head, good for you – that’s impressive! The penetrating partner can then enter from a missionary position.
This is a fantastic option if the receiving partner is flexible enough. I wouldn’t recommend it if you struggle with mobility like me.
9. The Mutual Masturbation
Sex doesn’t always have to be about penetration. It can be equally as orgasmic using your hands or sex toys.
I recommend getting comfy in the back seat if you want to pleasure each other with your hands.
If you want to try mutual masturbation, the passenger seat and front seat can work well too. You get a good view of one another and can lean across to kiss each other.
10. Automotive Oral
Oral sex in a car can be awesome too. There are plenty of ways you can do this. You could try one partner kneeling on the floor while the other sits in one of the front seats. You could try face sitting and using headrests for support. Or you could get in the back seat and experiment with endless oral positions.
I like leaning across in the front seats to give a blow job to a partner with a penis. You can also give a blowjob while the penis owner is driving (yes, I have done this way more than once). But we don’t officially recommend that as it could be dangerous.
Top Tips for Amazing Car Sex
There are lots of practical and safety considerations with car sex. I’ve included some tips to help you get the most out of your experience.
Choosing a Location
Selecting a secluded and level location is crucial for privacy and comfort. Look for spots away from busy areas, such as quiet streets, isolated areas in nature, remote parking lots, or even private property (with permission of course). Ideally, you want the thrill of the ‘idea’ of potentially getting caught, but not to actually get caught!
If you want a pretty view, scenic overlooks offer a romantic backdrop. Choosing a less frequented overlook ensures privacy (don’t go to a tourist spot). The combination of stunning scenery and seclusion makes it perfect for intimate moments.
Rural roads are ideal for sex in a car due to their seclusion and low traffic. Driving along country backroads can lead you to quiet spots that are perfect for getting naughty.
A lot of people choose car parks that they know are rarely busy at night. This can be a good option as long as you know the area well. The last thing you want is other cars turning up to ruin the mood!
If the risk isn’t for you, that doesn’t count you out completely. You could choose to have car sex in your garage – who said car sex had to be away from home?
Practical Considerations
So, what about the practical stuff? Here are some helpful tips to enhance your experience:
Talk to each other first – discuss your boundaries and expectations so you’re on the same page. Consent is the most important thing.
Wear comfortable, loose, and stretchy clothing to make removal or ‘access’ easier. I personally love wearing skirts for car sex, because they allow easy access without having to take off all your clothes.
Bring supplies like baby wipes, towels, and lubricant to ensure things run smoothly. Don’t forget protection like condoms or dental dams, especially if you’re not in a monogamous relationship. STIs aren’t sexy!
Mix things up when it comes to where to have sex in the car. It doesn’t even have to be inside the car. Try the trunk, the hood, or a truck bed if you have one. The whole point is to have fun and keep things interesting!
Experiment with different positions to figure out what works for you both and what feels good.
Sometimes sex in a car can be awkward, so keep things light. If a position doesn’t work, have a giggle together and try a different one.
Consider incorporating sex toys into your sex life can elevate your pleasure. Think about hands-free vibrators, cock rings, or butt plugs. I love involving sex toys – it can make sex even more fun.
Safety Precautions
While car sex can be exciting and very pleasurable, it’s important to prioritize safety to ensure an enjoyable experience.
Here are some important safety considerations:
Engage the emergency brake to prevent the parked car from rolling away unexpectedly (you could be rocking the car quite a lot so this is crucial).
Ensure the car is parked on a level surface, the engine is off, and the brakes are engaged.
If you’re going to be getting particularly athletic with your sex, consider opening the windows or using the vehicle’s air conditioning system to keep the temperature at a comfortable level and provide ventilation. The last thing you want is to overheat!
Stay aware of your surroundings so you can see anyone approaching or see signs of any other risks. I know that can be hard when you’re in the heat of the moment, but do your best!
Cleaning Up
Keeping your car clean after an intimate encounter is essential for hygiene and maintaining a pleasant environment.
Let’s dive into some practical clean-up tips to keep your car fresh and tidy:
Use towels or blankets if you want to protect your car seats from any mess. You can just throw them in the wash when you get home.
Keep baby wipes or any surface wipes in your car. They’re a quick and convenient solution for cleaning up any fluids after sex.
Put used condoms in a tissue before throwing them into the trash to minimize odor and ensure a clean environment.
Final Thoughts: Car Sex Is Exciting!
Car sex can be an exhilarating experience when done right. It can introduce a sense of excitement to your sex life and open the door for other sexual adventures. Just remember to prioritize safety and pick the right location so you can enjoy it without worrying.
If the thought of having sex in your car appeals to you, go for it. In my experience, it’s well worth a try!
