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The Betty Rocker Sex Position
Do you love a position where the receiving partner is on top? Then I’ve got an amazing option for you! It’s simple, it feels great, and it’s inclusive – yet most couples have never tried it. Let’s change that!
This article will tell you everything you need to know about the incredible Betty rocker sex position so you can try it for yourself.
What is the Betty Rocker Sex Position?
Nope, I’m not talking about the cake mixes! When I say Betty rocker I’m talking about a sex position. It just so happens to be one of my favorites, and I’m betting I’m not the only one!
The Betty rocker sex position is a variation on reverse cowgirl. The receiving partner is on top, facing away from their partner. The penetrating partner lies on their back. But this time the receiving partner leans forward so their weight is resting on their arms. Then they can rock and back and forth (hence the name).
This sex position can work for either vaginal or anal sex (although this requires some adjustments to the angle).
It’s perfect for any gender pairing, regardless of sexual orientation or body parts. You can use a strap-on or other sex toy if the penetrating partner isn’t a penis owner.
Is It Accessible?
The good news is the Betty rocker sex position is fairly accessible for most people, especially as the penetrating partner.
As the receiving partner you need some flexibility and strength, so you may need some adaptations. Of course, this depends on your disability – we’re all different.
If you’re the receiving partner and you struggle with chronic pain, you might find using pillows for support helpful. You can also have your partner use their hands to support your hips or ass to make things easier.
If you’re plus-sized like me and have a large stomach, this is a great position. There’s plenty of space for voluptuous tummies and neither of you is supporting your partner’s weight.
What Makes It So Hot?
We all love sex because it feels good, right? The Betty rocker sex position is no different –it feels fantastic! That’s why so many people love it.
It allows for deep penetration plus plenty of clitoral stimulation if the receiver is a vulva owner. If you get just the right angle you can get some G-spot stimulation too – double the pleasure here we come!
In this position, the receiving partner is in control, which is hot for both partners! And the penetrating partner gets a great view of their partner’s ass.
The penetrating partner has their hands free to caress their partner, try some anal play, or give their lover’s ass a spank. If you’ve read my other articles, you’ll know spanking is one of my favorite things so I highly recommend this option!
How to Perform the Betty Rocker Sex Position
If you’re thinking: “That sounds great, how do I try it?” I’ve got you covered! It’s a pretty easy position to get into.
Start with the penetrating partner lying flat on their back. The receiving partner can then straddle them, facing away from them. I find it’s easiest to have the penetrating partner enter from this angle.
Then the receiving partner can lean forward slowly until they’re in the right position. You can adjust the angle until you figure out what’s comfortable for you.
The penetrating partner will need a fairly flexible penis (or a flexible toy) for this to work. If it’s not comfortable, the receiver can adjust their position so they’re further back with a more upright angle.
What Does the Receiving Partner Do?
The receiving partner straddles their lover facing away from them, then very slowly leans forward. They need to be careful not to lean too far especially if the penetrating partner has a penis (you don’t want to strain it).
Once in position, the receiver can rest their weight on their hands and arms. They can then start rocking back and forth. You also grind or move up and down if you prefer.
The person on top controls the rhythm and speed, so you can play around to see what feels good.
What Does the Penetrating Partner Do?
The penetrating partner lies on their back and enjoys themselves. They can use their hands to touch their partner or help support their movements. But mostly, they just enjoy the view and how good it feels!
Feel Like Switching It Up? Here Are Some Other Variations
Enjoying the Betty rocker position might prompt you to explore similar options. Here are some other mind-blowing positions.
The Irish Garden
The Irish Garden position is very similar to the Betty rocker except the receiving partner lies on their front while facing away from their lover. The penetrating partner sits up or leans back depending on the angle they prefer.
Cowgirl
Oh, the good old cowgirl! It’s loved by so many of us with good reason. Again the receiving partner is on top, this time facing their partner to ride them. It feels incredible!
Reverse Cowgirl
You guessed it – it’s the cowgirl position but in reverse. The receiving partner faces away from their lover just like with the Betty rocker. This time they’re upright and can focus on more of a bouncing or grinding motion.
Want to Make It Even Better?
I’ve included some tips below to help you get the most out of the Betty rocker sex position:
Use toys: In my opinion, most sex positions can be made even better with the addition of toys. You could try a vibrating cock ring or a handheld vibrator for example.
Try different angles and rhythms: Take your time to adjust your angle and rhythm to see what feels best for you both. Don’t forget to keep communicating during sex – how else are you going to know what your partner is thinking?!
Use lube: Lube is essential for anal as your anus doesn’t lubricate itself (only the vagina does that). But it can also be amazing for vaginal sex too. It makes things super smooth down there, so don’t feel you have to wait until it’s ‘needed’. You can also try lubes that create different sensations, such as warming or tingling. If you’ve never tried them before, you’d be surprised how good they feel!
Opt for anal: Why not involve some anal play if you’re open to it? The penetrating partner can use their fingers or a toy to explore their lover’s anus while they ride them for some double penetration. Or you can switch up positions to enjoy some anal sex.
Compliment that ass: This one might seem obvious, but so many people forget to compliment their partner during sex. Tell them how sexy they are! Admire and praise that ass out loud while you’re being ridden! Don’t be shy – the right compliment can make someone feel more confident and even more turned on. You could even transition from a compliment into some dirty talk, which is always sexy!
Get kinky: We’ve already mentioned spanking, but how about adding in other elements? You could try sensory play, some light bondage, or other types of impact play. There are so many fun options!
Don’t forget to be safe: Fun is important but so is mutual consent and using protection. Don’t forget to keep you and your partner safe throughout.
Rock Your Way to Sexual Pleasure
The Betty rocker position is an exciting twist on reverse cowgirl. It offers intense penetration and plenty of opportunities to get a bit kinky. The key is communication, experimentation, and finding what works best for both partners.
So why not give it a try? When the bed’s rocking, don’t come knocking!
Frequently Asked Questions
How can I enhance clitoral stimulation in the Betty Rocker?
Try using a vibrating cock ring or a handheld vibrator for extra pleasure. It’ll definitely level up the experience!
What adjustments can enhance G-spot stimulation in the Betty Rocker?
To really amp up G-spot stimulation in the Betty rocker position, try arching your back, elevating your butt, and maintaining a steady rhythm.