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Boob Fetish
Boobs are everywhere – on our screens and in our daily life. They come in all shapes and sizes and can be incredibly sexy. It’s natural in our society to be drawn to women’s breasts. But is it more than just an attraction?
Do you find yourself thinking about boobs all the time? Do you seek them out online when you’re ‘in the mood’? Maybe you just can’t get excited without looking at a pair of boobs! In that case, you might have a boobs fetish. And you’re not alone – it’s one of the most common and normalized fetishes out there!
This article will tell you everything you need to know about a boobs fetish. Let’s get started!
What Exactly is a Boob Fetish?
Breast fetishism is essentially a strong sexual attraction to breasts. People with a boobs fetish might find themselves aroused when they look at their partner’s boobs. They might want to touch them, lick them, kiss them, and involve them in sexual activity.
Someone with this fetish will be fascinated with boobs and find it hard to draw their attention away from them. They might not even need to focus on other areas of their partner’s body to experience sexual pleasure. If they’re single, they might find themselves watching porn that focuses mostly on breasts.
A boobs fetish is most common in cisgender, straight men. However, anyone of any gender can have a boobs fetish if they’re attracted to women or non-binary people with breasts.
Liking boobs is a pretty normal thing in our society (I mean, let’s face it, they’re super sexy). So what makes it a fetish? Well, if you can’t get aroused without a primary focus on boobs, then it’s probably a fetish. A fetish is a ‘need’ rather than a simple desire or attraction.
A boobs fetish can also be called mastofact, breast partialism, or mazophilia – they all mean the same thing.
Why Do People Experience Breast Fetishism?
If you’re attracted to people with boobs, you probably already have your own answers as to why they turn people on. I love boobs – small, large, and everything in between. As a pansexual queer woman, it doesn’t matter to me about the size of the breasts or how they look – if they’re part of the person I’m with, they’re breathtakingly sexy (just like the rest of their body)!
But what’s the science behind why this attraction develops into a fetish for some people? Well, there are lots of explanations.
We have evolved as humans over the years to see a woman’s breasts as an indication of fertility and sexual attractiveness. Research shows that larger breasts are a sign that as a woman is sexually mature and has high levels of reproductive hormones.
This association with fertility can also connect to other desires, which are focused on the arousal tied to impregnation and the physical changes that occur during pregnancy in pregnancy fetish.
This sounds complicated, but basically, it just means that cisgender heterosexual men are naturally programmed to want women who they see as the best choice to birth their babies!
Nipples are very sensitive (I think we all know that). A bit of nipple play can be great fun. Maybe this is part of why people are drawn to boobs, because stimulating their partner’s breasts (or their own) makes them feel good.
Boobs also play an important role in family life. After all, the parents with the boobs are the ones who do the breastfeeding! Oxytocin, often referred to as the “love hormone,” is released during both breastfeeding and sexual activity. Some scientists even think that men who were breastfed as babies have that built-in ‘draw’ towards boobs because of this initial experience with them. Sounds weird, but it’s true!
But what about queer people who love boobs? Well, it’s not just biology, it’s also about the world around us. Our society has focused on a woman’s body as a sexual object, with a huge focus on boobs. They’re a focal point in fashion, on TV, in movies, in porn, on social media – basically, everywhere!
Think about it – when you go shopping as a woman, most clothes are designed to make your boobs look a certain way. They’re designed to make them look bigger or ‘show off’ your cleavage. There are even push-up bras, ‘shaping’ bras, and bras with padding! So we’re conditioned as we grow up and develop to sexualize boobs. It’s no wonder we’re so focused on them!
It’s important to note that this focus on big boobs (as well as other expectations put on women) can result in insecurity and even unrealistic expectations in relationships. If you’ve ever stood in front of a mirror and criticized your own body, you’re not alone. People in bedrooms all over the world have stood there doing the same thing. But in reality, every body is a good body!
All boobs are beautiful, and it’s important that we start to break down those perceptions so we can love ourselves and have healthier relationships. At KYS, we celebrate all bodies!
Types of Boobs Fetish Play
There are lots of ways you can explore your boobs fetish. I’ve included some of the most common ways of engaging in boob play below to inspire you:
Lactophilia: Lactophilia is a fetish for lactating breasts. It refers to adults who enjoy breastfeeding or seeing someone lactate – yes, that is a thing! And it’s probably more common than you think. It’s also known as breast milk fetishism or erotic lactation.
Mazophallating: This one sounds complicated, but it’s a ‘boob job’ guys! A tit wank, a titty fuck, or whatever else you want to call it. It’s the act of a person with a penis putting their cock between their partner’s boobs and ‘fucking’ them. Sound appealing? Give it a go – it’s fun!
Motorboating: You’ve probably heard this one talked about in a jokey way, but it can be sexy too! We’re not talking about a boat with a motor. Motorboating refers to putting your head between the boobs of someone with large breasts and rubbing your face in them. Some people like to make a sound like blowing a raspberry while they’re doing it.
Involve boobs in your foreplay: Boobs are great fun to involve in foreplay. Whether it’s giving them a squeeze, a stroke, a kiss, a suck, or a lick, it can feel great for everyone involved! Top tip – try a gentle nibble or graze with your teeth!
Exploring lingerie: Lots of people with a boobs fetish enjoy seeing their partner’s breasts in sexy lingerie or beautiful bras. You could go shopping together, enjoy a ‘try on’ show, or treat your lover to something you think they’d look particularly sexy in.
Enjoying a massage: Have you ever tried a massage that focuses on boobs? I promise you, as the receiver or the giver, it’s incredible. Get some nice massage oil, light a few candles, put on some calming music, and give your partner’s boobs the sensual attention they deserve.
Playing with new sensations: Some people enjoy trying new sensations, such as new ways of touching their partner’s boobs. You could even try some temperature play. I love using ice cubes, warm oils, or enjoying some wax temperature play with a lover. Just make sure you’re using skin-safe candles and pre-wet your ice to avoid injury! If you prefer something simpler, you could even just try warming or cooling your hands before touching your partner.
Using toys: Sex toys don’t have to be reserved just for the genitals! They’re so much fun to use on other areas of your body too. Try a vibrator on the nipples or nipple suckers. If you’re into something a bit kinkier like me, nipple clamps are a great option. You can even get vibrating nipple clamps, so you get the best of both worlds! I especially love nipple clamps that are attached to a collar for power play.
Considering bondage: Speaking of being kinky, how about some breast bondage? This might involve a harness, rope, or even bondage tape. It’s extremely erotic in my experience! However, it’s also risky (especially when you’re tightly binding boobs) so it requires extra care.
Impact play: Some people enjoy trying some light impact play on the breasts. Impact play refers to any ‘striking’ or ‘hitting’ motion done consensually that feels good for the receiver (and often, the giver). Think spanking and whipping! It’s really important to note that the boobs are a very delicate area and are easily harmed. Many people avoid them altogether during impact play. However, if you’re very careful and experienced, some light impact to the boobs can feel good.
Tips For Exploring Your Boobs Fetish
If you’re new to exploring your boobs fetish, I’ve included some of my top tips below:
Talk to your partner about your desires, and how you want to explore your fetish.
Just like with any sexual activity, everyone involved must fully consent.
Experiment with different ways of involving your fetish in your sex life to see what works for both of you.
Start with smaller, simpler things, like involving boobs in foreplay and trying a boob massage. This doesn’t require buying expensive equipment right away. Plus, it can help you to ease into the fetish and see how it feels if you and your partner are new to the idea.
Keep those lines of communication open throughout your exploration.
Have fun and don’t put too much pressure on yourself or your lover.
Is It Wrong to Have a Boobs Fetish?
Absolutely not – there’s nothing wrong with having a boobs fetish! There’s a lot of stigma around fetishes in general, but in reality, they’re a healthy expression of sexual desire and exploration. And there are plenty of people in the fetish community who are just like you. So you’re not alone (even though it may feel like it sometimes).
You shouldn’t feel guilty or ashamed. If your fetish isn’t harming anyone, doesn’t disrupt your daily life, and is consensual – there’s nothing wrong with it!
Final Thoughts: Boobs Are Beautiful!
So many people have a natural attraction to breasts. In our society, sexualizing a woman’s breasts is ‘normal’. When it becomes more intense than an attraction, that’s when it’s a boobs fetish. And there’s nothing wrong with that. So feel free to have fun and enjoy your fetish!
If boobs aren’t your thing, don’t worry – there are plenty of other kinks and fetishes for you to explore. There’s something for everyone at Know Your Sins!
