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Boob fetish
We can all agree that women have one of the softest and most tender things mankind has ever known: boobies!
Imagine you’re having a bad day at work: someone spilled coffee on you, and you had to stay an extra hour after your usual shift. While you’re feeling down your partner sends you a cute video of herself with a bright smile, telling you to feel better. But all you can focus on are her nipples poking out of her skin-tight white shirt, her full breasts weighing down her top. Instantly, your mood shifts, and all you can think about for the rest of the day is heading home and burying your face in those two soft, comfy pillows on her chest.
People might call it weird or even perverted, but folks with fetishes often say it adds a certain zest to their relationships—more romance and enough spark to light up a city. Having a fetish is more common than society portrays. Take the fascination with breasts, for example. Studies show that the average guy is a bit obsessed with boobs. So you’re not alone in wanting to keep things spicy in the sheets. In case you feel “weird,” let’s go on an exciting journey into the wonders of the boob fetish.
Also, there’s a side to this that isn’t often talked about: the arousal that comes from lactating women. Yep, you guessed it, the pregnancy fetish. Honestly, I find it fascinating how some people are really into breast milk. But hey, no judgment here—exploring these things is what makes it all so intriguing.
So Why We’re All Crazy About Boobs?
You will likely not get a straight answer if you ask someone who is into breast fetish why they are. Some might say they are attracted to the size and visual of it’s protrusion on female’s body, but according to Anna Thea, just as men want to return back to the womb (and subconsciously ‘get into our pants’), they also want to return back to the nipple.
Most men and even straight women are attracted to breasts and get aroused by seeing them. While nipple stimulation or nipple play can arouse anyone, many women prefer to be on the receiving end rather than the other way around.
It is also possible for a person to not realize they have moved from just loving a nice set of boobs into fetish since a lot of people are just naturally crazy about boobs. As a fetish, boobs become a focal point even during sex and people with this fetish may not be able to get aroused without them (fully exposed or not). Sometimes even, there might be no sexual gratification involved for the fetishist, they just really, really like boobs.
A Starting Point
As much as sharing such experiences can be fun, it is essential to remember that there are a lot of things that can be come with exploring this kink and it is advisable to do proper research to be able to sail smoothly through it.
Apart from just staring and touching, breast play can also include:
- Kissing – Softly kissing the breast and nipple area.
- Licking – Using the tongue to gently lick around the nipple.
- Sucking – Gently sucking the nipples, which can be particularly stimulating.
- Massaging – Gently massaging the breasts in a circular motion.
- Nibbling – Carefully nibbling the breast and nipple area, keeping sensitivity in mind.
When it comes to incorporating toys into breast play, there are several popular options that can enhance the experience:
Nipple Clamps – These apply a gentle pressure to the nipples, increasing sensitivity. They come in various tensions and styles to suit different comfort levels.
Vibrating Nipple Toys – These toys provide stimulating vibrations to the nipples. They can be small pads or clamps that vibrate.
Feather Ticklers – Using a soft feather tickler to gently brush across the breasts and nipples can create a teasing, sensory experience.
Breast Pumps – These can be used to increase blood flow and sensitivity in the breasts, making them more responsive to touch.
Nipple Suction Devices – These create a vacuum on the nipples, increasing their size and sensitivity temporarily.
It is also common for men with a breast fetish to engage in Mammary Intercourse (boob job) where a penis is placed between a woman’s breasts and gets stimulation from rubbing against the two breasts pressed together. In this case, I guess breast size actually does matter.
And if you want to get even kinkier, research has shown using cold (ice play) and heat (wax play) has been proven to be a very exciting way to spice up breast stimulation for both males and females. Just be sure to do a lot of research on this and to be on the safer side.
Sensitivity And Sexual Arousal In Women’s Breasts
The shape and size of the breasts has nothing to do with how sensitive it can be. Apart from feeding babies and driving adults crazy, breasts are one of the most erogenous zones of the body and it triggers the brain to release a chemical called Oxytocin which has stress relieving qualities. From the nipples, areola, the underside and just by the underarms, that soft, fleshy mound is a hot zone for gaining erotic pleasure.
Interestingly, the most sensitive parts of the breasts that women find most pleasurable is not the nipple but the skin around it.
It is set up in such surprising way and is connected to certain lower parts of the female body, like a fancy wiring being controlled by her brain telling her to feel a certain way when that part of her body is getting a form of enjoyable stimulation.
From Boobs Admiration to Breast Milk Business
It’s clear that female breasts are a major focus, and pregnancy adds to this by making them larger and producing breast milk. As much as the shock culture may call this behavior scandalous, it’s just another day in the boob loving business. Even then, it can’t be that crazy if someone made a business out of it by selling breast milk. Men pay to have the milk in cups and even opting to get it directly from the source.
Apart from it being a kink, it can also help breastfeeding mothers clear up some of that excess milk and relieve discomfort. Different cultures have what they might consider acceptable in regard to having kinks, but in the end it boils down to what a person likes.
How Boob Fetish Can Bring You Closer?
It’s no secret that people hear the word “fetish” and instantly shy away from it but really, a fetish can be something enjoyable by both parties involved in sexual activity as long as it is consensual on both sides. Although society has deemed some sexual interests more “normal” than others, majority still practice some sort of fetish even if they notice it or not.
She knows how much you love her boobs and she knows you’re stressed so she picks out a top that is almost transparent that you can see her dark, large, areolas.
When you get home she’s still wearing the top and she walks closer to you as you take off your tie, her hand palming her breasts.
“Honey, can you help me take a look? I feel like my breasts got bigger.”
It’s easy for her to know and see how excited you are even though you play along by letting her sit on your lap as you help her examine them.
This is an example of how partners can share something as delicate and intimate as a fetish. The woman in this case caters to her partner’s need for comfort while also making it fun for the both of them and still having a sense of control over the situation.
Just because the fetish belongs to one person does not equate to only being enjoyed by that person.
Ease Into It
If you’re trying to open up your partner to the idea of exploring boob fetish with you, a few things are necessary.
1.Don’t rush it. Your partner might be new to this and you don’t exactly want to scare them off. Also remember that consent is always important so be honest with what you want so they don’t feel blindsided.
2.Don’t be so serious that you can’t crack a joke or two. It’s sex not rocket science. Being playful helps to reduce the tension that comes with exploring an unfamiliar territory.
3. Be sure to speak up if you aren’t comfortable and ask questions until you do.
4. Have a safe word or signal and don’t be afraid to use them if you ever feel uncomfortable about anything.
It’s Okay To Be A Little More Than Enthusiastic About Female Breasts
All in all, there is nothing strange or taboo in having a fetish that you and your partner enjoy. There are no set rules when it comes to building a happy and intimate sexual relationship with your partner. The bedroom isn’t a place to live by the rules of the society so you’re allowed to go a little wild. Let go of any shame—you’re just having more fun, and if you loved this article about boob fetish and want more, Know Your Sins is here to guide you through all your little sins (wink wink).
