Here’s What Makes Lingerie Kink So Irresistible

If seeing someone attractive in lingerie really get you going, you are at the right place.  Whether you’re drawn to a panties fetish, pantyhose obsession, adore stockings, or crave something more risqué like leather, there’s something here for everyone.

Let’s take a closer look at lingerie kinks, including tips for exploring your kink further.

What is a Lingerie Kink?

A lingerie kink refers to someone who is turned on by lingerie. They might be attracted to their partner wearing the lingerie or may enjoy wearing it themselves (or both).

I mean let’s face it, seeing a woman wearing matching lingerie is undeniably sexy!

Some people are aroused by specific textures, fabric, or types of lingerie. For others, it’s about the visual tease—a glimpse of something forbidden beneath everyday clothes.

Anyone of any gender or sexual orientation can have a lingerie kink. Some people have a lingerie fetish, but that’s slightly different.

Here are some things that people with this type of kink enjoy:

• Stockings and garter belts: These are a classic – you can’t beat stockings! People who enjoy wearing or seeing this sort of outfit worn are often into roleplay, BDSM, or specific power dynamics (although not always).

• Corsets: Corsets symbolize control and transformation, accentuating the body in a way that can feel both restrictive and liberating.

• Sheer Fabric: Sheer items and lace are well-loved because they provide an element of teasing.

• Men wearing lingerie: For some men, being able to wear sexy underwear themselves is an empowering act that challenges gender norms and embraces personal expression.

Why Do People Find Lingerie Sexy?

You might find yourself wondering: “Why does lingerie hold such power?” Well, there are a few reasons.

Lingerie often represents heightened femininity or seduction. This can make it feel sexy to wear, as well as to see a girl wearing it. It can be a powerful tool in a fetish like sissification.

I personally love using lingerie in roleplay scenarios – it can be so sexy!

Lingerie can symbolize control – whether it’s the wearer choosing to seduce or the admirer being captivated by the view. Because of this sense of control, it can also play a role in dominance and submission scenarios.

For some people, the feel of silk or satin lingerie against the skin can heighten tactile pleasure.

For many, it’s about anticipation and longing. In my experience, seeing your partner in sexy underwear lets your imagination run wild and builds a sense of arousal before you even get to the bedroom.

Tips for Exploring a Lingerie Kink

If you’re drawn to a lingerie kink, I’ve included some tips below to help you get started:

• Talk to your partner about your feelings and expectations. Consent and communication are so important.

• Think about why sexy underwear appeals to you and how you want to incorporate it into your sex life.

• Start slow, for example buying some stockings, seductive bras, or silk panties. You don’t want to spend all your money right away until you figure out what works for you. I highly recommend playing with different colors, textures, and styles.

Is Having a Lingerie Kink Wrong?

Kinks and fetishes tend to be surrounded by stigma. They can come with feelings of guilt or self-doubt. But there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you or your desires!

Whether it’s a fetish or kink, it’s valid as long as it’s consensual and safe. Plus, you’re not alone. There are lots of online forums and blogs to help you find your community. There are plenty of us out here!

Final Thoughts – Lingerie is Sexy!

Spicing up your sex life is fun. There’s no shame in it!

Lingerie can be a gateway to exploring fantasies. Don’t be afraid to explore that side of yourself.

Trust me – it can be great fun to open yourself up to your sensual side!