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Breeding kink
I had this fantasy the very first time I had sex with my first boyfriend, and no matter who I slept with after that, I always had these thoughts with him. They would automatically come to mind whenever I spread my legs.
One day we smoked a bit of weed to help me relax, and it worked. We were fucking like rabbits a few times, and there was hardly any bleeding. The third time that night, he put me in this position—it was the position that sparked this fantasy, the idea that I was being planted and bred.
I mean, you can’t feel like you’re being bred unless your cunt is pointed straight up at the sky, right? And that’s exactly how it was.
I was lying on my back, all my weight on my shoulders, with my legs straight up and over his shoulders. He was high above me—I remember looking up and seeing him looming large, coming down into me, boring straight into me.
It wasn’t a scary thought—if anything, I felt accommodating, wide, and open, just waiting for him to fill me up with his sperm. Waiting for him to plant his seed, like I was this warm, fertile hole in the earth, there just for him, for that exact purpose, to be planted and impregnated.
I was the earth and the hole in the earth. I was all hole, and he was like some great planter, moving from hole to hole with each thrust. I was all the holes, I was the earth. He bred me again and again. It was so exciting… and so natural, so right….
Did you ever fantasize about planting your seed in someone? Or maybe you’ve imagined someone breeding you, filling you up with their sperm? That’s the vibe of a breeding kink, and trust me, it’s more common than you think.
At KYS, we’re here to clear up any misconceptions or concerns you might have about this topic. Our goal is to give you a better understanding of what it’s like to experience breeding kink or how to understand someone who enjoys it.
What Exactly Is Breeding Fetish?
At its core, a breeding kink (or impregnation fetishism) is an intense attraction to the idea of pregnancy, either by getting someone pregnant or by being impregnated. It’s not just about sex—it’s about the fantasies tied to fertility, creation, and letting go of control.
While people might enjoy the fantasy of impregnation, it’s often detached from the reality of wanting a child. It’s more about the act of ejaculating inside the body, symbolizing possession, ownership, and trapping someone as yours. This fantasy comes from the historical association of pregnancy with ownership in patriarchal societies, where having a child meant control over the partner.
Women may have a breeding kink, but don’t necessarily want to get pregnant in real life, whereas men may be turned on by the fantasy of accidentally getting a woman pregnant.
Since breeding fetishes are rooted in fantasy, all genders and sexualities may have breeding kinks.
Searches for #breedingkink started rising in 2020 and peaked in late 2021. This trend went viral on TikTok, with women zooming in on positive pregnancy tests or protruding bellies, captioned “taking the breeding kink too far.”
What Goes Into a Breeding Kink? Unprotected sex, what else?
Breeding kink refers to our most basic instincts. First of all it is about the unprotected sex, then there is the thrill of potentially making a baby, and the animal drive that comes with it. But along with the physical act, there is also desire, dominance, and control. As mentioned earlier isn’t necessarily about wanting a real pregnancy or raising a child but about the erotic energy tied to the act of life creation.
Some, enjoys the vulnerability of receiving semen without birth control. Others, take pleasure from the power of depositing their seed, knowing their partner trusts them entirely. Many people incorporate dirty talk about pregnancy into their play, saying things out loud making the game even more interesting. “I’m going to breed you,” or “I want to cum inside me,” are common phrases that adds more to the sex.
How to Know If my Partner Has a Breeding Kink?
So, how do you know if your partner is into breeding kink? Well, it often starts with curiosity or small hints during sex. Maybe they express excitement about coming inside you without a condom or talk about impregnation or making babies in a playful or serious tone. They might enjoy role-playing pregnancy scenarios or drop hints during intimate moments, like whispering dirty talk that revolves around breeding.
I strongly believe you must talk. If your partner brings up unprotected sex, pregnancy talk, or shows excitement when the topic arises, it’s worth having an open conversation. Try to approach the subject with curiosity rather than judgment. Ask them if it turns them on or if it’s just playful talk. You’d be surprised how many people are into it but are too shy to bring it up!
Forced Breeding vs Fantasy
Forced breeding is an extreme version of this kink, where the fantasy involves a dominant partner “forcing” impregnation onto the submissive one. And it is very important to remember that in the kink world, the consent must be ongoing, so while the term sounds intense, it’s really a consensual roleplay where both partners previously agrees to it.
In these scenarios, the dominant person might role-play “forcing” the submissive in a RapePlay scenario to take their seed, emphasizing the power and control. It’s not about real rape but rather acting out a primal fantasy where one take the other by force. At this moment the dominating partner takes full control over reproduction, and the other has no options but to surrender to it. The excitement here lies in the domination and submission, amplified by the possibility of pregnancy.
Feedism vs Forced Breeding
While forced breeding is focusing on the impregnation part, feedism focuses on the pleasure derived from nurturing through food or drink, combining care with control.
Can Woman Be a Feeder?
Feedism can be done by people of any gender. The term “feeder” usually refers to someone who gains sexual satisfaction and pleasure from feeding their partner, that is called the “feedee”. In the case of a breeding kink, a “feeder” can be the one who “feeds” or supplies the seed, metaphorically nurturing the idea of reproduction. But in feedism often includes scenarios involving feeding milk where the girl is the feeder.
If the feeding specifically involves milk, whether through breastfeeding (as in an Adult Nursing Relationship) or feeding milk as part of the roleplay, the concept is similar. The feeder enjoys the act of nourishing and taking care of their partner, while the “feedee” experiences pleasure from receiving and being pampered.
Why Do People Like Being Feeders?
People enjoy being feeders for different reasons. Some like taking care of someone and providing them with pleasure. Others, like dominating, the idea of feeding, whether it’s through food or sperm, can symbolize taking control of someone’s body and desires. It creates a very erotic bond between both parties.
How to Try Breeding Kinks Fantasies and Role Play
Breeding kink fantasies can range from subtle to intense. It could be as simple as dirty talk about making babies during sex or a full-blown roleplay scenario.
Talking about roleplays, take Aggie McMuffin, for example, who discovered her breeding kink at Burning Man, she imagined herself as a princess being impregnated by a dragon.
It can as well include fantastical elements, like getting impregnated with monster or alien eggs. There are sex toys made for this specific fetish, called ovipositors, which resemble dildos and are inserted into the vagina or anus for pleasure likewise. We have a list of sexual fantasies around Sex with Monsters, Sex with Ghosts, Sex with Futanari and Sex with Tentacles. You may find them under Paranormal Category.
You’ll find this kink all over the internet, from fanfiction to porn, often sparking conversations about reproductive rights and sexual freedom.
Related Kinks & More to Explore
Remember, if your first experience with breeding kink or impregnation fetish doesn’t go as planned—maybe you felt a bit awkward or uncertain—don’t give up on it just yet. If you think it could be more enjoyable with a bit of practice or a smoother setup, it’s definitely worth trying again.
Like most new kinks and fetishes, it can take time to get used to. Meanwhile we encourage you to check out other related kinks and fetishes, such as Pregnancy Fetish that will surprise you on how common it is, Creampie Kink, where the focus is on internal ejaculation, or Adult Nursing Relationships (ANR) where one partner breastfeeds the other in erotic lactation.
Do what feels good for, just be sure to prioritize ongoing consent and have as many orgasms as you can.
