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Pregnancy fetish
Have you ever wondered why you’re having sexual fantasies of pregnant or lactating women? Is it just me or there’s something sexy about a cute, rounded pregnant belly?
A pregnant belly is often a wordless announcement of a woman’s sexual connection, and maybe even relationship, with a man. If you find yourself sexually aroused by the presence of a pregnant woman you might have a fetish.
Many misconceptions surrounding pregnancy kinks exist and make it quite difficult for people to be open about their interests or sexuality. People who have decidedly sexual intentions towards women in what is widely considered to be their most vulnerable state, may be seen as weird or disrespectful.
For example, sex while pregnant remains taboo in many conservative cultures, with many claiming that sex with a pregnant woman may cause harm to the baby or mother or even insisting that it’s just downright ‘wrong’ to desire women who are pregnant.
Fortunately, all of these are misconceptions and must be emphatically corrected. There is nothing inherently wrong or problematic with consenting adults satisfying a pregnancy fetish as long as both parties are comfortable, safe, and respectful toward one another.
At KYS, we’re here to clear up any misconceptions or concerns you might have about this topic. Our goal is to give you a better understanding of what it’s like to experience pregnancy fetish, breeding fetish or birth fetish and how to understand someone who enjoys it.
What Does a Pregnancy Kink Mean?
Preggophilia vs. Maiesiophilia
Pregnancy fetish or what scientifically is called maiesiophilia, is a sexual attraction to women who are pregnant or appear pregnant. It includes attraction to lactation, or attraction to particular stages of pregnancy such as impregnation (breeding fetish) or childbirth (birth fetish) or breastfeeding (Adult Nursing Relationship).
Pregnancy is usually seen as a gift, bringing the joy of new life. But for some, the attraction to pregnancy become an erotic fascination.
So, what’s behind all of this? One of the answers could be found in those studies, that explain that early exposure to pregnancy can lead to these attractions, but is it always the case?
Why Do Men Find Pregnant Women Attractive?
Well, pregnancy fetishes have very complex roots. Different people fantasize about pregnancy fetishes for very different reasons, all of which we will explore below.
Some men find pregnant women attractive because pregnancy shows a woman’s ability to have children, which can symbolize fertility. This obvious display of fertility is incredibly attractive and hard to resist. Subconsciously men feel that woman is capable of continuing their lineage and its one of the main attraction reason.
Then she is often seen as caring and protective because she’s growing a baby. Some people find this nurturing and loving side of pregnancy very attractive, as it shows kindness and the ability to care for others.
But there is more. The fact that it’s seen as something that people don’t often talk about or do can make it more exciting for those who enjoy it. Having sex with pregnant women may feel different due to physical changes and societal perceptions, therefore when both partners know they are doing something that isn’t accepted much in society, it can make the experience even more pleasurable.
Another fact is that pregnancy is a special and temporary time in a woman’s life. Because it doesn’t last forever, some people find it interesting and want to try enjoying it while they can. The changes in a pregnant woman’s body are unique, making this time feel extra special and attractive.
Speaking of which, you can’t miss those changes that happen in the body, like a bigger belly and fuller breasts, increase of sexual appetite etc, all of these can be very sexy to people who have a pregnancy kink.
Of course, many other factors lie at the bottom of a pregnancy fetish. Sometimes, it’s as simple as enjoying sex with a pregnant woman once and subsequently developing a taste for it. Whatever lies behind your desire for pregnant women, rest assured it is healthy and normal, and as long as you go about it safely and consensually, you’re fully justified in indulging your fetish.
Is There a Kink for Wanting to Be Pregnant?
The Pregnancy Risk Kink & Breeding Fetish
Yes there is and it is called breeding kink or impregnation fetishism. The act of impregnation itself is an incredibly erotic experience that awakens within the fetishist a primal urge to mate. Many men and women often have breeding kinks fantasies, with men wanting to impregnate and women wanting to get impregnated. This ties naturally into the breeding kink, where the focus is on the primal desire to reproduce, intensifying the sex of pregnancy fantasies and the act of impregnation.
When pregnancy kinks, focuses more on the pregnant body and its changes. Breeding kinks are about the act of reproduction and the desire to impregnate. If you are into breeding fetish, we have a dedicated article with guidance and tips on how to explore it more.
Is There a Birth Fetish?
Yes, birth fetish is a part of pregnancy fetish involve people who are sexually aroused by watching or participating in birth-related scenarios.
This can mean people that like watching or pretending to see someone give birth. Some people find the process of giving birth or seeing a pregnant belly really interesting in a way that makes them feel aroused.
It’s important to understand that everyone has different feelings about things, and as long as they are safe and respectful of others, it’s fine to have them. People with birth fetish should always make sure everyone is comfortable and agrees before they do anything.
Is Pregnancy Porn Real?
Well it depends. Most porn feature real pregnant women, but some may prefer to use props to simulate pregnancy and even lactation.
You’d be surprised to know that pregnancy porn is quite a small yet thriving section of the adult industry that almost exclusively meet the needs of pregnancy fetishists. Whether man or woman, you’re guaranteed to find all kind of content out there, featuring beautiful porn stars of all races, body types and levels of friskiness.
Pregnancy porn can provide a visual expression of your fantasy which you shouldn’t hesitate to explore either alone or with your partner and fellow fetishist. You don’t need to feel guilty about watching pregnant women get pleasured on camera, either. They’re usually well compensated and earn higher than regular porn stars because, with the amount of load they have to carry and take, they deserve it.
Watching pregnancy porn can be a healthy way for those with the fetish to explore their desires visually.
What You Should Not Do During Sex with Pregnant Women?
Is Sex During Pregnancy Safe?
In case you were wondering, sex during pregnancy is safe for both the baby and mother, so all you preggophiles can rest assured that you can have sex with your pregnant partners as many times as you both want, unless expressly otherwise stated by a qualified obstetrician.
Doctors recommend avoiding sex during the first trimester and the last month of pregnancy unless there’s a serious medical reason.
Things to Keep in Mind
Before engaging in any kinks and fetishes, communication and consent between both partners must be ongoing. Pregnancy fetishism is no different, so an honest conversation about your attraction must be prioritized.
A safe word is also important, especially if you intend to introduce other fetishes in conjunction with your preggo fetish. The safe word is useful for stopping or slowing down the activity if things get too intense for either of you.
Things to Avoid
It is worth mentioning that just because you feel the urge to impregnate your romantic partners doesn’t mean you should. Birth control and regular STI testing could help pregnancy fetishists engage in their fantasies with some degree of safety.
Positions that put pressure on the stomach should be avoided during pregnancy to avoid hurting the baby. The standing and missionary sex position put the most pressure on your stomach, but if you prefer missionary, you can get away with it by putting a pillow under your pregnant belly for support.
Don’t sleep with a pregnant woman while either of you has an active sexually transmitted infection. To ensure safety, get yourselves checked out and treated before indulging in sex with her. Also, be on the lookout for any vaginal bleeding, and see a professional if it happens before, during, or after sexual intercourse.
Fun Tips and Tricks to Enjoy Your Pregnancy Kink
Pregnancy Role-Play Fantasies
Getting pregnant multiple times has social, financial and even physical implications on both men and women, so you’ll certainly not be attempting it too many times in your adult life.
I mean, while the pregnancy state can be highly attractive, having multiple pregnancies like having eight kids for that reason may be a bit extreme, don’t you think?
To get around that, you and your partner can take on role playing instead.
You can use belly cosplay props found in sex shops to create a fake bump and fake huge tits on a female and even a male partner. The idea of male pregnancy can seem out of reach, but in role-play fantasies, even that can be simulated for your enjoyment, everything is possible!
Furthermore, there are some pregnancy sex positions, some a little difficult and others more enjoyable. Here you may find the list of the top sex positions suitable for pregnant women, ensuring comfort throughout all trimesters.
Final Thoughts
Like all other fetishes, pregnancy fetish is frowned upon in many societies, and this has led to feelings of guilt and shame in those who have this fantasy. People enjoy many different kinks, all of which should be approached with understanding, especially when they don’t harm anyone.
For those with a boobs fetish, you might be curious to know that we have dedicated article about it., where we explore this kink and give ideas on how to play with it.
At KYS we believe that more positive exposure is required to bring more acceptance for people with an attraction to pregnant women. Overcoming internal negative emotions about your sexual interest is a journey that requires patience, a safe space and a community to express yourself, and, of course, acceptance.
Only when these are present you can truly take steps to explore your pleasure and your sexuality on your own terms.
