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What Exactly is Hypnosis Fetish?
You know the old movie cliche about a person hypnotizing someone? Usually, they say a phrase like “you’re getting very sleepy.” Some people react to these scenes with a bit more interest than others. For these audience members, the hypnotist might as well be saying “you’re getting very horny.“
That may sound a bit wild, but have you ever considered how erotic getting hypnotized could be? Imagine getting guided on a path of self-discovery and transformation by a voice that has a soft rhythm, almost like silk against your skin.
Every word from their mouth is like a brushstroke on your mental canvas, it creates vibrant scenes of pleasure and possibility, causing you to give in to the alluring force of seduction. Feel the pleasure reverberate through your body and bask in it. If you’re feeling hot and bothered right now, you should know there’s a name for this particular passion. Welcome, my friend, to the world of the hypnosis kink.
Erotic hypnosis or hypnokink involves using a technique of mental control to spice up kinky or sexual activity. The technique can be surprisingly effective because it can be used to manipulate the subconscious to provide enhanced sensual experiences.
Some are ashamed of their hypnokink, but you shouldn’t be one of them. The very idea of hypnosis has fascinated humanity for millennia, and the subject has been passionately explored by some of the greatest writers throughout history. The Greek author Homer wrote about the hypnotic voice of sirens in The Odyssey. Beyond literature, famous doctor Gilles de la Tourette (you guessed it: Tourette’s syndrome is named after this fellow!) popularized the idea of using hypnosis to treat women, and his research helped popularize the idea of using hypnosis to sexually manipulate vulnerable women.
But you’re not here for a history lesson…you’re here to figure out how to make fantasies of hypnotic control come to life in the weirdest, wildest, and wettest ways. Ready to uncover the depths of your desires and discover the keys to supreme pleasure? You don’t have to focus on the sound of my voice…all you have to do is keep reading!
What Makes Erotic Hypnosis Worth Trying?
Maybe you’re on the fence about trying erotic hypnosis. You might not be sure it will work in the bedroom, or maybe you think the whole thing will feel silly rather than sexy. Either way, it’s important to answer the big question: what makes erotic hypnosis worth trying in the first place?
As with all good kinks, there are several potential answers to that question. Below, you’ll find the best ones and enough information about them to decide whether hypnosis needs to become a part of your usual bedroom proclivities or simply remain a hot little fantasy.
Power is a Classic and Natural Aphrosadiac.
Few things are hotter during sex than exploring power dynamics between a dominant and a submissive partner. In BDSM, this usually involves special protocols (like the sub calling her dom “Master”) and specialized toys (like handcuffs and collars). Hypnosis allows you to explore this dynamic without the gear, but the ultimate goal is still for one partner to dominate the other, this time by using only their voice.
If you watch much online porn (and who, I dare ask, doesn’t?), you’ve probably noticed more and more bondage vids getting posted. That’s because BDSM has gotten much more normalized over time. Because of the related power exchange, erotic hypnosis has gotten more popular, too. For what it’s worth, you have plenty of fellow kinksters out there who love the idea of hypnotizing a partner into sexy submission!
A Good Trance Equals Deep Relaxation.
Those new to erotic hypnosis often think the goal is to jump right into sexual intercourse. However, the reality is often more complicated, with hypnosis serving as a very specialized form of foreplay that helps the submissive partner get in the mood. That’s because it brings on a deep state of relaxation that can help people release tension associated with specific thoughts, allowing them to let go of negative feelings and achieve a more profound sense of calm.
In therapy, the goal of hypnosis is to quiet someone’s mind and help them achieve mindful introspection. However, this hypnotic state of calmness can also be used to heighten sensuality even as it builds confidence and helps people conquer their various anxieties and phobias. Ultimately, a good hypno session is a real win/win for the submissive because they get many of the benefits of guided meditation, all of which heighten their ecstasy during sex.
A Safe Space to Escape and Separate Your Mind
During a BDSM session, it’s not uncommon for the submissive to escape into a mental space that is effectively disconnected from the rest of their mind. This is affectionately known as “subspace,” a term that ensures you’ll never see Star Trek the same way again. During BDSM, the submissive may slip into such a space at random. During hypnosis, however, one of the explicit goals is helping the sub disconnect certain mental processes from the rest of their consciousness.
In therapy, this technique can help patients honestly explore aspects of their unconscious and discover traumatic memories or the motivation behind dangerous behaviors such as substance addiction. In sex, this process (known as dissociation) can help both romantic partners explore power exchange in a powerful way. For instance, a dominating partner may hypnotically induce a submissive partner into a dissociative state, enabling the sub to explore novel feelings and experiences while feeling safe with her lover-turned-hypnotist.
How Does Hypnotism Arouse Someone?
We’ve covered many of the biggest reasons why people explore erotic hypnosis, and they often overlap with why people explore non-erotic hypnosis. This includes the desire to dissociate while discovering hidden truths about yourself. However, we still need to answer a more fundamental question: why does this kinky practice make so many of us horny in the first place?
One simple reason is that hypnosis elevates sensations and desires. Being truly relaxed is a bit like being blindfolded: it helps your mind and body experience physical sensations like never before. Once hypnotized, the simplest touch can set someone’s skin on fire, and each orgasm feels like a wave of pure, explosive pleasure.
Because of that, many kinksters love to mix hypnosis play and sensory play. For example, if your fingers feel exquisite to someone who is hypnotized, just think how crazy you could make them with feathers or ice cubes? You could even throw in some electrostimulation play and (with their consent, of course) send electric ripples of pleasure through a hypnotized sub when they are most receptive to it.
Even without sensory or electro play, erotic hypnosis can be pleasurable because it allows the hypnotized partner to explore their deepest desires…the ones hidden deep within the subconscious. And the subsequent release is that much more explosive because they have placed themselves in the hands of a hypnotist who is granting permission to give themselves over to pure pleasure.
What to do When Performing Sexual Hypnosis?
So, you now know more about the benefits of erotic hypnosis. You also know why it’s such a major turn-on. If you have a willing partner, there’s only one question left: how should you conduct a hypnosis session to keep things both safe and fun?
Very carefully, of course! To do so while keeping things nice and hot, use our easy tips below.
Make a Safe and Trusting Space with your Partner
Establish trust with your partner to make a safe space for sexual exploration. This can be done by starting slowly to avoid overwhelming your partner and communicating your sexual needs, wishes, and boundaries in a clear manner. As always, communication prevents misunderstandings that might ruin the vibe.
Don’t Do Anything Without Enthusiastic Permission
Consistently request and honor consent throughout sexual encounters. Remember, an agreement before sex doesn’t mean that your partner will automatically enjoy everything you do together. By checking in throughout the session and continuing to get enthusiastic consent, you can ensure that each of you has a great time.
Make them Feel Relaxed
Relaxation techniques should be included to improve openness to hypnotic suggestions. Try engaging in deep breathing and other relaxation techniques before getting hot and heavy.
Set the Mood with Sensory Play
Sensory clues like scented candles, gentle music, and low lighting can help set the mood right, improving the overall experience while helping your partner explore your fantasy.
Check-in with Each Other After your Erotic Hypnosis
To relax out of the hypnotic experience and maintain emotional well-being, partake in aftercare activities like talking or snuggling after each session. Also, it is important to tell your partner what went well and what needs to be addressed for the next session. That may seem awkward in the moment, but it’s the only way to make future sessions even hotter! By giving aftercare top priority, you can offer the emotional support that might be needed to handle any heavy residual emotions following hypnosis.
Hypnosis: Making the Trance With Two Backs
Many people won’t understand or even accept your interest in erotic hypnosis. However, you don’t need the acceptance of random people…you simply need to accept your own desires and embrace the honesty and curiosity necessary to fully explore them. And if you need more support beyond your consenting partner, you can always find it via online support groups. Alternatively you could read more on how to hypnotise someone here.
Discovering that you’re really into erotic hypnosis may help you discover a few more kinks you weren’t even aware you had. For example, if you like the power exchange offered by hypnosis, you may enjoy bondage and different roleplay. If you’re more into making someone helpless to the pleasure you give them, you may enjoy sensory play, which offers a naughty buffet of possibilities.
When it comes to sex, that buffet is always all you can eat. And here at Know Your Sins, we’re dedicated to helping you enjoy every bite and lick the plate until it shines!
