Missionary Again? Let’s Change That!
Imagine this: you and your partner are feeling frisky, and it doesn’t take long before you end up in the bedroom. Your hands are running over each other’s bodies, clothes are flying off, and tension is building. You’re both so aroused!
You can’t wait anymore – you want to enter them! But you end up in the good old missionary position yet again. You both love it, but you fancy something a bit different. It’s time for a change!
If you’re feeling like this, you’re not alone. Although we all have favorite sex positions, sometimes you just want to shake it up a bit. And that’s where we come in!
I’ve included 15 amazing, slightly ‘weird’ sex positions that you’ve probably never tried. Most of these positions can work for either vaginal or anal sex with some adaptations where needed.
So buckle up and get ready to discover your new favorite sex position!
1. Helicopter
This is a tricky position to get into, but well worth it if you can manage it.
The penetrating partner is on top, facing away from their lover with their legs in the air. It’s called the helicopter because once you’re in the right position, your bodies kind of look like helicopter rotor blades. Or maybe it’s because it offers a dizzying, adrenaline-fueled ride!
Admittedly, mastering the helicopter demands flexibility and balance from both partners. So, if you’re disabled like me, you might need to make some adjustments to manage it.
2. X Marks the Spot
X Marks the Spot is also called the “twisted missionary.” If you’re a missionary lover, this is a great way to make things more exciting.
In this sex position, the penetrating partner lays at an angle across their partner. Together, your bodies make a sort of ‘X’ shape, hence the name.
I love this position because not only does it really hit the spot (especially if you’re a person with a vulva as the receiving partner), but it’s also pretty accessible.
3. Ballet Dancer
In the ballet dancer position, both partners stand. The receiving partner puts one leg over their partner’s shoulder, balancing on the other leg – impressive, right?
It’s difficult to do as the receiving partner, I can’t lie. But if you struggle with mobility or flexibility like me, you can try leaning back against a wall for extra support. If you can’t get your leg all the way up, try just lifting it as far as you can get it.
I love this position because it’s both intimate and thrilling. But be careful you don’t fall over!
4. Pretzel
The pretzel is a must-try at least once for all lovers. It’s another one I love as both the receiver or the penetrating partner while using a strap-on.
In this sex position, partners twist their bodies into a pretzel shape, with one lying on their side while the other straddles the bottom thigh.
I find it provides a lot of the same benefits as missionary but with even deeper penetration. It’s also fairly accessible – what’s not to love?!
5. Piledriver
As a general rule, a sex position named for a wrestling move is guaranteed to be wild! You’ll need flexibility and strength for this one.
The receiving partner lies on their back, legs in the air, and bent back as far as they can get them. Ideally, they need their legs on either side of their head! The penetrating partner squats over them to enter them.
Ultimately, this position can be fun and playful or even be part of some serious impact play if you’re into BDSM like me.
6. Wheelbarrow
Get ready for a bit of a workout in the wheelbarrow sex position. Hello, deep penetration!
The penetrating partner holds the other up in a wheelbarrow-style move to enter them from behind. It requires a lot of strength from the receiving partner, as you need to support your weight on your arms.
It’s not the best option if the receiving partner is plus-sized like me (unless the penetrating partner is super strong, of course).
7. Irish Garden
Prefer something a bit less challenging but just as sexy? Then the Irish garden position is for you!
It’s like a relaxed, doggy-style position. The penetrating partner sits up or leans back slightly. The receiving partner lies on their front, facing away from their lover, with their legs spread behind them.
I love it because the penetrating partner’s hands are free to explore. Plus, it feels fantastic and is accessible!
8. Bridge
If you love a challenge and you’re particularly flexible, you might want to try out the bridge.
The receiving partner bends backward, supporting their weight on their arms and legs to create a ‘bridge’ shape. The penetrating partner gets on their knees to enter their lover.
Done right, this position allows for deep penetration and major stimulation. Top tip – if you can’t hold yourself up, you can adapt this position with a chair or other support under your back.
9. Full Nelson
Yep, that’s right. This is another sex position based on a wrestling move!
The Full Nelson is basically a variant of reverse cowgirl. The receiving partner is on top facing away from their lover, legs spread and as high as they can get them. The penetrating partner holds the legs of the receiving partner in place.
It’s perfect for deep, intense penetration. But of course, you need to be very flexible if you’re the receiver!
10. Spider
Ready to get tangled up with your lover? I promise this position isn’t creepy or scary. It’s so hot!
Both partners lean back and intertwine their legs. I love this one for car sex in the backseat! Plus, you can watch the expressions on each other’s faces, which is one of my favorite parts about intimate positions like this.
11. Reverse Launchpad
In this position, the penetrating partner has their feet raised upright and resting against their lover’s back. The receiver ‘sits’ on top. It’s perfect for anal!
12. Amazon
This is a variant of cowgirl in which the penetrating partner brings their legs up and bends their knees while the receiving partner essentially squats on their cock or sex toy. It’s great for power dynamics!
13. Octopus
Wrap your limbs around each other like a pair of cheeky octopuses, with the receiving partner’s legs upover their lover’s shoulders. Deep penetration, here we come!
14. Viennese Oyster
Can you put your legs behind your head? Then the Viennese oyster position is for you! Get those legs up and your ass in the air and prepare for some mind-blowingly deep penetration!
15. Ladder
You don’t need an actual ladder for the ladder sex position, but it helps. This is where one partner rests on a slightly higher elevation (like a higher rung of the ladder) while a partner on a lower level penetrates them.
Tips For Making Unique Positions Work
These positions can sound a bit ‘out there’ (I mean, that’s the point). So, here are some of my top tips to help you make them work:
Talk to your partner about what you want to try. Make sure you both consent fully and set out a plan. These aren’t the sort of positions you can just jump into spontaneously!
Make sure you build up arousal with foreplay. You might even want to stretch before some of these difficult positions!
Don’t be afraid to adapt positions to suit your ability and comfort levels. Use pillows, try slight variations, and lean on things for support -it’s supposed to feel good!
Don’t take it too seriously or worry about it if you can’t get the hang of a position. Have a laugh and move on. After all, they’re tricky, so it’s understandable!
Try involving toys for additional stimulation (the more pleasure, the better).
If it’s uncomfortable, try something else. You don’t have to stay in an uncomfy position just to prove you’ve done it!
Have fun – otherwise, what’s the point?
Which Positions Will You Try?
Chances are you’ve discovered a sex position or two that you have never heard of before. Remember, you don’t have to incorporate all of these into your lovemaking. But trying a few crazy sex positions from time to time is a great way to keep your relationship from getting stale.
So, keep an open mind, chat with your partner, and have fun trying some new things!
