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The Helicopter Sex Position
If you’re looking to spice up your sex life with some more advanced sex positions, then the helicopter sex position could be the one for you. It’s adventurous, it requires flexibility, and it’s certainly a challenge.
Some people even look at it as a novelty position! So, can it be done? And more to the point, can it be enjoyed?
We’ll take a look at everything you need to know about the helicopter sex position to answer this question.
What Is the Helicopter Sex Position?
The helicopter sex position, named for its resemblance to a helicopter, is popular among thrill-seeking couples. It’s also known as the bumper cars position.
It’s a sex position where the partner who is going to be penetrated supports their weight with their elbows and knees, with their butt tilted up in the air.
The penetrating partner faces the opposite way. They position themselves on top of their lover (think top to tail). They balance on their hands and rest their hips over their partner’s butt.
They then support their weight on their hands and as they slide inside their partner, they put their feet up in the air (that’s where the helicopter part makes sense).
Sounds complicated, right? It really is!
This position can work for both anal and vaginal sex. It can be used by couples of any gender or sexual orientation. If you’re using a sex toy, you’ll need one that’s pretty flexible to make this work!
While the helicopter position can be complex and physically demanding, some couples do find it pleasurable. Others simply want to try it briefly to say they’ve done it once!
Since the helicopter sex position requires strength, mobility, and flexibility, I wouldn’t say it’s particularly accessible or good for beginners.
If you have limited mobility like me and are more vulnerable to injury, I would probably give it a miss.
Why Do People Like the Helicopter Sex Position?
Since it’s so difficult to do, you’re probably wondering: “Why on earth do people like the helicopter position?” Fair question!
There are a few reasons people are attracted to this position:
Excitement: It’s exciting to try something new. New sex positions can keep things fresh in a relationship. For a lot of couples, the thrill of trying a challenging position adds an extra layer of excitement.
Unique angle: The angle achieved during the helicopter sex position is unlike any other position and lets you experience a new sensation. It can also offer an arousing view of your partner’s physique, adding to the overall excitement.
Feet: If you have a foot fetish, then this position has the extra benefit of having your partner’s feet right near your face. Get sucking those toes!
Pleasure for penis owners: If you’re a person with a penis and you’re on top, you’re in for a treat! This position stimulates the head of the penis due to the downward angle. Since the head of the penis has around 4000 nerve endings, it’s particularly sensitive which can lead to explosive levels of pleasure.
Deep penetration: If you’re very skilled and manage to get the hang of this position, you might be able to achieve some deep penetration. Although, depending on the size and flexibility of the penis or toy, it can be difficult to do this.
Increased intimacy and connection: Trying new things, especially tricky positions, requires a lot of communication throughout. I find that this can help to increase the intimacy and connection between you and your partner.
How to Do the Helicopter Sex Position
To get into the classic helicopter position, one partner gets on their hands and knees. The other assumes a downward dog position above them facing in the opposite direction.
Both partners should gradually lower themselves down, easing into position until they get the right angle.
The penetrating partner should ensure their erect penis (or sex toy) is flexible enough to point downwards.
Once you’re in the right position, the person on top can enter their partner and use their strength to raise their legs up. They can then begin thrusting slowly.
What Does the Man Do in the Helicopter Position?
The person with the penis or sex toy thrusts slowly, controlling the pace and depth of the penis. They hold their body weight on their hands. It’s vital that they take it incredibly slowly and are very careful not to overstretch their penis.
What Does the Woman Do in the Helicopter Position?
The partner on the bottom stays still at first until the penetrating partner is comfortable. Then they can move their hips to enhance the experience.
Variations of the Helicopter Position
If the classic version of the helicopter sex position doesn’t sound quite right for you, don’t worry! There are plenty of variations to mix up a bit.
Common variations include:
The grounded helicopter
In this variation, both partners lie flat on their stomachs, making the position easier and more comfortable. The partner who is going to be penetrated lies on their front with their legs spread. The penetrating partner lies facing the opposite way.
This variation is a bit more accessible and requires less body strength, but still needs plenty of flexibility.
The ‘cheat sheet’
This is the same as the traditional helicopter, except the person with their legs in the air rests them on a sofa, bed, or other surface for support.
Other Variations of the Helicopter Position
The Anvil position
The anvil variation involves the receiving partner lying on their back with their legs elevated. It can still be a bit tricky, but is much easier than the classic variation. This is the only version of the helicopter that I’ve managed to do (and that was before I was disabled).
The Irish Garden Position
In the Irish Garden position, the penetrating partner sits upright with their legs apart for support. The receiving partner faces away, sitting between their legs and leaning forward. They control the movement by rocking their hips, making this position easy and comfortable for both.
Bonus tip: If you want your man to thrust into you, put your arms behind your back and let him grab your hands to pull you in with each thrust. If he’s flexible, he can lean forward and lie on your back, making it feel more like spooning. For a rougher sex, he can pull your hair to add an extra layer of BDSM.
The Scissors Position
This is the standard helicopter flipped on its side in a sort of spooning position. The scissors position can be more comfortable, and you can even add sex toys like e-stim into it.
Keep in mind that Scissors position can take some adjusting to find the angle that feels best for both of you.
Also note that this position needs plenty of space, so it’s not ideal on a single bed. It may not be the best choice for clitoral or G-spot stimulation either. Additionally, it can be challenging for heavier couples, so consider exploring other sex positions better suited for your comfort.
The Pile Driver position
The pile driver position is a more physically demanding variation, requiring one partner to lie on their back with their hips elevated (usually supported by their legs or shoulders), creating an almost vertical body angle. And the other partner to stand or kneel over to thrust downward. If you want a workout, this is definitely going to be the option for you!
Tips for Performing the Helicopter Position
If you want to give the helicopter position a go, I’ve included some tips for you below:
Talk to your partner and make sure you’re both on the same page. Communication and consent are key.
Use protection like condoms, especially if you’re not in a monogamous relationship.
Try different variations and adjustments until you figure out what feels best for both of you.
Use lubrication to enhance pleasure and make things more comfortable. This is especially helpful if you’re engaging in anal sex.
Consider incorporating toys like a bullet vibrator for extra stimulation.
Safety is crucial when attempting the helicopter position so start slowly to prevent injuries.
Warm up – yes, really, just like you would before exercise. A position like this is a true workout!
Consider the physical capabilities of both partners to avoid strain or injury and if one of you doesn’t feel confident, try a variation or a different position altogether.
Incorporate a safe word to address any discomfort immediately.
Switch positions when things get uncomfortable – the helicopter sex position is not designed for longevity!
Try not to focus too much on how it looks or whether you’re in exactly the right position – relax and have fun!
What If You Can’t Do It?
If you try the helicopter position and you can’t do it, don’t be hard on yourself or feel embarrassed. It’s a challenging position and trying it is half the fun.
Simply have a giggle with your partner and try something else. There are plenty of other sex positions to explore! If you’re looking to spice up your sex life, there are also lots of kinks and fetishes you could try.
Final Thoughts: The Helicopter Position is Challenging But Fun
The helicopter sex position offers a unique and thrilling way to spice up your sex life. The only way you’ll find out if you like is to try it!
So, what are you waiting for? If it appeals to you, embrace the adventure and enjoy the new heights of pleasure this position can bring.
