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Wrestling fetish
Wrestling is more popular now than ever before. It’s like there’s something in the air, and countless people are suddenly realizing how fun it is to watch powerful fighters battle for superiority in front of the world.
Of course, for every one person who finds wrestling exciting, there’s another who finds it downright exciting. Who can’t help but be turned on by watching beautiful, muscular people fight each other, pin each other, and generally establish their dominance while millions are watching.
And more people than you think want to bring that kind of aggressive energy into the bedroom. For example, have you ever wanted to pin someone to the ground and feel them struggling (consensually, of course) to break free? Or maybe you’re the one who wants to be pinned and feel your adrenaline surge (among other things) as you try to wriggle loose?
If you’ve ever imagined this scenario and how hot sex would be afterward, you have a wrestling fetish. What is it all about, and how can you bring the championship belt to your bedroom? Keep reading to find out!
What Exactly is Erotic Wrestling?
Even in the world of kink, the wrestling fetish is fairly exotic. Just what is this kink all about? Simply put, it’s about a dominant partner utilizing their strength in a play fight with a submissive partner as each one wrestles for dominance.
In this fetish, nobody is supposed to get hurt, and the “wrestling match” is more like a highly physical bit of foreplay. The idea is to explore fantasies of dominance and submission in a safe and playful way that ensures nobody actually gets hurt. But this fantasy does always end with one person overpowering another, and to the right kinksters, there’s nothing quite so sexy as physically exerting dominance via wrestling.
Where Did It Come From?
Even those who love to watch their favorite fighters engage in a new wrestling match each week know the old refrain that the spot is completely fake. With that in mind, why the heck do those with a wrestling fetish want to bring this dynamic into the bedroom? After all, in a world where everyone wants erotic authenticity (aka, real orgasms rather than fake ones), it can be weird to imagine that thousands if not millions of people want such a fake wrestling experience in their love life.
In reality, there is nothing fake about the instincts involved in wrestling…namely, fierce competition, the rush of adrenaline, and close physical contact. For many, especially men, the idea of wrestling with a partner brings out these primitive animal instincts. And primitive though they may be, the combination of power, tension, and physical closeness involved in this “fake” sport can create a truly tangible sense of connection.
What About Emotional Connection?
Wrestling is obviously a very physical sport, but that doesn’t mean that the wrestling fetish is only about physical conquest. At its heart, this fetish is about establishing an emotional connection. As with any good BDSM relationship, you and your partner are trusting each other with dominant and submissive dynamics and the responsibility to navigate these highly intimate and interconnected roles.
Navigating those fetish roles involves trust in each other and extreme faith in the relationship. Ironically enough, by embracing a fantasy where one party must win and one party must lose, you can create the best kind of relationship: one where each of you always wins.
Wrestling Kink Practical Tips
Are you new to the wrestling fetish and want to explore how it makes you feel? Good news…all you have to do is start a playful wrestling match with your partner, a bit like a more physical version of a tickle fight.
Remember, you need your partner’s enthusiastic consent for this fetish…if you suddenly attack them out of nowhere, they may be just as likely to pepper spray you as go along with a wrestling fetish that you may or may not have told them about. However, most couples secure in their relationship are cool with a bit of light horseplay, and a bit of open communication after that will help you discover if your partner is comfortable with making the wrestling fetish a regular part of your relationship.
If they are, great! Below, you’ll find some practical tips to make your fetish wrestling safe and fun:
Set Boundaries: Before getting into any action involving major body contact, have a quick chat about limits and safe words. This is important to ensuring you both feel safe and comfortable throughout. Make sure you’re both feeling good about it. Wrestling is fun, but only when everyone’s on the same page.
Know Your Limits: Wrestling can get intense, so it’s important to agree on what feels good for both of you. Make sure to avoid putting too much pressure or force on each other’s bodies to prevent injuries while the two of you are “fighting.”
Safe Words Are a Must: Always agree on a safe word. It’s a simple way to pause or stop if things go beyond the comfort zone. The goal is fun, not harm!
Experiment with Holds: Try out different holds and styles to see what works for you both. Whether you’re inspired by boxing, judo, or playful grappling, mix it up to keep the energy fresh and exciting.
Use a Soft Surface: Make sure you’re wrestling on a soft surface, like a mat or a bed, to reduce the risk of injury. This is especially important if things get a bit rougher than planned.
Laugh It Off: Wrestling is supposed to be fun! Don’t take it too seriously. Laugh when you get tangled up, and enjoy the playful side of things.
Stay Relaxed and Fluid: Wrestling doesn’t have to be all about force. Keep your movements fluid and relaxed. This allows you to enjoy the closeness and keeps things light and enjoyable.
Stay Hydrated: With all that moving around, you’ll work up a sweat. Make sure to stay hydrated and take breaks when you need to.
Consider Watching Matches: For inspiration, you can watch live wrestling matches or look for role-playing setups in the kink community. It can help you learn new moves and understand it better.
Explore Fetish Communities: If you’re looking to connect with others who share this interest, consider joining online fetish wrestling groups or attending events where like-minded people come together. These communities can offer support, advice, and ideas for your wrestling fun an even help you discover a new fetish or two along the way.
Who knew wrestling could be this much fun? Sure, it’s intense, but don’t forget to laugh when you end up in a tangled mess of limbs. and the best part is figuring out who gets to pin who.
As long as you respect each other’s boundaries and keep it safe, it can be an exciting way to explore.
Inspiration from Other Fetishes
If you love wrestling, there are a few other kinks you might want to check out. Domination and submission offers that same feeling—where you decide who’s in control and who’s giving in. Trust us when we say being worshiped by a good sub is the next best thing to feeling like a god!
If you’re into spanking or other forms of physical play, impact play could be just what you need. And of course, if you’re all about appreciating each other’s strength and body, muscle worship or body worship are perfect for you. As with BDSM, this dynamic of control and submission is hottest once you firmly establish who the dominator and who the dominated really are.
Want some more ideas? Then you’re our favorite dirty kind of dog! At KnowYourSins, there’s a whole world of kinks and fetishes, and even sex and fan fiction waiting for you to explore. Why not get a little closer to your sins and find out what truly turns you on?
Explore, Connect, and Be You
Your favorite wrestlers are bold, jumping into the ring and never holding anything back. Honestly, that’s how you should approach your love life. Go after what excites you, and don’t hold back. You deserve to be loved and accepted just as you are, with all your quirks and desires. And if you surround yourself with people who get you—who lift you up (in wrestling or in life) and love you for being you…then you’ll experience the kind of liberating happiness most people would kill for.
And remember, you’re not alone in this naughty journey! There’s a whole community out there just like you, ready to connect, share, and enjoy. Consider checking out some wrestling fetish forums like WrestleFetishClub, or meet like-minded people in groups like Wrestling, Grappling, and Struggle Play.
Whether you’re meeting people online, in person, or just getting inspired by some wrestling vids on WrestlingForum, you’re part of something bigger. Time to get in there and enjoy it while you’re relatively young…after all, your knees will thank you later in life when you’re ready to worship and can still sink right down to a dripping, moaning little altar!
