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Suspension kink
Ever wondered what it’s like to feel weightless and free, floating mid-air in a vertical suspension? Let me take you on a little journey into the world of body suspension also know as suspension bondage.
Picture this: the ropes are ready, you’re wrapped in intricate knots, and someone you trust begins to lift you. Ropes lift you off the ground, nothing but air beneath your feet… The feeling of rising off the ground is like nothing else. It’s a bit like that childhood swing set but with an edgy, grown-up twist.
In this tight-knit community, we’re all about building trust and understanding. And hey, the fun doesn’t stop at the physical sensations. There’s a whole emotional rollercoaster, too. It’s kind of like bungee jumping for your soul – exhilarating and deeply bonding. You get to explore your desires, push your limits, and express yourself in ways you never thought possible.
So, if you’re ready to dive in, let’s explore the world of suspension together. Who knows? You might just find a new passion or two.
Why Try Suspension Bondage?
Engaging in a suspension means hanging someone from ropes attached to the ceiling, chain, or suspension cuffs. There are two main types: partial suspension, where only part of the body is lifted, and full suspension, where the whole body is off the ground, creating a feeling of vulnerability and weightlessness.
The flicker of suspension lies in its psychological impact. The weightlessness can make you feel spiritually uplifted, leaving you both aroused and super relaxed. Plus, giving up control and trusting your partner can be incredibly liberating. It’s like a trust fall, but spicier.
At its core, suspension is a deeply intimate experience, connecting you on both emotional and physical levels. If you’re curious about trying this kink, remember that understanding and respecting these psychological aspects is key to having a safe and satisfying experience.
Suspension bondage is a mix of art and intimacy. It has roots in medieval Japan, where samurai used ropes to restrain prisoners. Over time, these techniques evolved into Shibari, a beautiful and intricate form of rope bondage that emphasizes connection and trust among the carer and the suspended person or bound person. Think of being wrapped in a rope like being back in a mother’s womb—secure and vulnerable at the same time. This deep trust and the feeling of being lifted off the ground make you wnat to try it. The rope becomes an extension of your partner’s hands, creating a profound emotional bond.
Every sensation is heightened during suspension. The rope’s gentle touch, the feeling of weightlessness, and the intense connection with your partner all make for an unforgettable experience. There are few basic steps:
How to Engage in Suspension Kink
Learn the Basics: Start with understanding Shibari. There are many resources, workshops, and online tutorials that teach the fundamentals of rope bondage.
Find a Skilled Partner: Suspension requires a lot of trust. Work with someone experienced or attend classes together to learn proper techniques and safety measures.
Use the Right Equipment: Invest in high-quality ropes made from natural fibers like jute or hemp. Make sure all your equipment is safe and reliable.
Prioritize Safety: Always have safety scissors on hand, know the pressure points and avoid them, and establish safe words for immediate communication.
Communicate Openly: Discuss boundaries, limits, and expectations with your partner before starting. Continuous communication is key to ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience.
Start Slow: Begin with partial suspensions to get a feel for the experience before moving to full suspension.
The Day of the Suspension:
1. Gather Your Equipment
Rope Types: Use natural fiber ropes like jute or hemp mentioned earlier. They’re strong, have the right amount of friction, and are gentle on the skin. Aim for 6mm or 8mm diameter ropes, typically in 7-8 meter lengths.
- Safety Gear: Always have safety scissors on hand to quickly cut through the rope in case of an emergency.
2. Start with Partial Suspension
Easiest Types:
- Chest Harness: Supports the upper body, making it easier to transition to more complex suspensions.
- Hip Harness: Good for supporting the lower body, and can be a comfortable introduction to the sensation of being lifted.
3. Master the Basics Before Moving On
Intermediate Suspensions:
- Tk or Takate Kote: A common arm-binding position that provides a secure foundation for various suspensions.
- Futomomo (Leg Tie): Adds an element of restriction and can be integrated into full suspensions later.
4. Full Suspension
Advanced Techniques:
- Face-Up Suspension: Considered safer and more comfortable for beginners transitioning to full suspension.
- Face-Down Suspension: More advanced and requires a higher level of trust and skill.
- Inverted Suspension: Requires careful weight distribution and high expertise in tying and safety.
5. Setting Up
Anchor Point: Ensure your suspension point (beam, hook, etc.) can support at least five times the weight of the person being suspended. Test it before each session.
- Carabiners and Rings: Use high-quality climbing-rated hardware to connect the ropes securely.
6. During Suspension
Monitor Physical Condition: Keep an eye on the bottom’s circulation, breathing, and overall comfort. Redness, numbness, or tingling are signs to stop immediately.
- Stay Within Your Limits: Avoid complex positions until you’re fully confident in your skills and understanding of the body’s anatomy and pressure points.
7. Aftercare
Post-Suspension Care: Gently massage the areas where ropes were tied, use soothing lotions and cudddles (why not), and ensure the bottom is comfortable and relaxed. This helps in coming down from the intense physical and emotional experience.
How to Get Consent and Keep Enjoyment Practicing Body Suspension
Getting consent and maintaining enjoyment in body suspension is all about clear communication and safety. Start with an open conversation. You might say, “Hey, I’ve been curious about body suspension. How do you feel about trying it?” Make sure you both agree on comfort levels and set clear boundaries.
Before you start, double-check all your gear—hooks, ropes, everything. Safety first! You don’t want any surprises. During the session, keep the conversation going. Ask, “How are you feeling? Still good?” This keeps everyone on the same page and ensures comfort.
Use proper suspension techniques and safety gear to minimize risks. If you’re not sure about something, do some research or get advice from someone experienced. Always have a backup plan in case something doesn’t go as expected.
Watch for any signs of discomfort. If your partner says, “I need a break,” or you notice they’re not enjoying it, stop immediately. No questions asked.
The key is trust and respect. Being in tune with each other’s needs makes the experience enjoyable and safe. And remember, it’s supposed to be fun for both of you! If at any point it’s not, take a step back and reassess.
Accept Yourself by Accepting Your Suspension Desires
Remember, if you’re into body suspension and want to explore your fantasies, the first step is to accept and appreciate yourself. Embracing your natural desires helps you grow and be your true self.
Being part of a supportive community also helps. It’s much easier to explore without fear of judgment when you’re surrounded by understanding folks. This journey not only helps you get to know yourself better but also strengthens your bonds with others.
In the end, exploring related kinks can open up new perspectives and boost your creativity. Embracing your desires leads to a more genuine and fulfilling life, filled with self-love and acceptance. So go ahead, be yourself, and enjoy it.
