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The Basics of Rigger BDSM
Have you ever fantasized about being tying your partner up with ropes? How about being restrained by a dominant partner and teased until you’re finally allowed to explode in ecstasy? If any of that appeals to you, you might be into rigger BDSM.
When I talk about being a rigger, I’m not talking about someone in control of the ropes on a boat or someone working on an oil rig. Instead, I’m talking about a form of bondage.
This article will talk you through everything you need to know about being a rigger, including sharing some top tips if you want to try it.
It seems sensible to start with the basics, right? If you’re here, you might already be into BDSM and know some of this. But if you’re brand new to the idea, then this could be useful for you.
What is BDSM?

BDSM stands for ‘bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism’. The term refers to a group of sexual practices that often focus on power dynamics.
This means that usually in a BDSM relationship, one person is the dominant partner and the other is the submissive partner. The dominant partner is the one in control in the bedroom. The intensity of this power exchange varies depending on the people involved and what they’re into. There are also people called switches like me, who can switch between the two roles depending on their mood, the person they’re with, and the scenario.
BDSM practices are varied but today we’re focusing on rigger BDSM – so let’s take a closer look.
What Is Rigger BDSM?
Rigger BDSM is a form of BDSM that involves a person tying their partner or themselves up with rope. It’s easy to see why it’s sometimes called rope bondage or rope play. The term ‘rigger’ comes from sailing, referring to the person in charge of tying the ropes on board a boat.
Usually, the person doing the rigging is the dominant partner. They’re known as the ‘rigger’ or ‘rope top’. The person being tied up is the submissive. They’re also referred to as the ‘rope bunny’, ‘rope bottom’, or ‘rope slut’. This dynamic fosters a consensual and fulfilling power exchange. We’ll use these terms interchangeably throughout this article.
Rope bondage involves creating intricate patterns and knots that can range from strict restraint to artistic expressions, making it a versatile and captivating form of BDSM. Some riggers even practice suspension bondage, where they will tie up their submissive with ropes and raise them up off the floor so they’re hanging by the rope.
The practice of rope bondage can be deeply intimate for many couples. For some couples, rigger BDSM is a form of foreplay. For others, it’s part of their sexual pleasure and they’ll engage in sex acts while the submissive is tied up. In some cases, it’s simply an art form rather than something sexual.
Historically, the rigger kink has roots in Japanese practices like Hojjutsu and Shibari, which have significantly influenced its evolution in Western culture. It has evolved into something beautiful which draws from a range of different practices and techniques.
Rigger BDSM requires a lot of skill and practice. It’s something that has to be learned over time with a lot of hard work, especially for complex ties and knots.
Who Can Try Rigger BDSM?
Anyone can get involved in rigger BDSM regardless of sexual orientation or gender if they’re willing to put the work in. However, it’s not the most inclusive form of BDSM for those who are disabled, either as the dominant or the submissive. This is because it does take quite a bit of strength and flexibility, and there is some significant risk of injury involved. So, I would say proceed with caution and be well-informed before giving it a go if you do have any health issues.
If you’re wondering if plus-sized people can be the bound partner, the answer is yes! It requires a bit more careful consideration of the strength of the ropes used if you’re going to try suspension bondage. Your Dom will also have to carefully consider which techniques and rope placements will work best, but you can absolutely get involved in rigger BDSM!
The Role of the Rigger
The rigger is the one who does the tying with rope. They’re typically the dominant partner, so they’re the ones who like to be in control.
The rigger is responsible for ensuring the safety and comfort of their partner during rope play. As the dominant partner, the rigger manages the rope bondage. They need to continuously monitor their partner’s well-being. It’s their job to respect their partner’s boundaries and keep them safe throughout their BDSM play.
Riggers should be attentive to their partner’s physical and emotional needs. Prioritizing safety and maintaining open dialogue ensures a positive and fulfilling experience for both parties.
The Role of the Rope Bunny
The rope bunny is the submissive partner. They’re the ones who are tied up. They have to follow their Dom’s instructions during rope play. Trust and intimate connection are fundamental for a rope bottom when selecting a partner, as they rely on the rigger for their safety and comfort during bondage.
Open communication about desires, limits, and experiences helps build this trust, ensuring a mutually satisfying and consensual experience.
Why Do People Like The Rigger Kink?
Now we know the basics, but you might be wondering why people like rope bondage! Well, there are more reasons than you might think for both rope tops and rope bottoms. I’ve included some common reasons below.
Sexual Pleasure
For many people, their rigger kink turns them on. Whether it’s tying their partner up or being tied up – it’s arousing and exciting. Partners engage in sexual acts during rope bondage, which makes it even more pleasurable!
Submission and Control
A big part of the reason many people engage in rigger BDSM is because it enhances the power dynamics that already exist within their relationship.
Trust, Communication, and Intimacy
This kink takes so much trust and open communication that it can enhance intimacy and bring a couple closer together emotionally.
It’s An Art Form
Many riggers consider it an art form because it requires precision, dedication, and careful configuration of knots, ropes, and body parts. They get a lot of pleasure out of it because they can express their creative side and see their work come to life, just like any other artist.
Relaxation and Stress Relief
For some Doms and subs, it can be a form of stress relief. It’s like stepping away from day-to-day life and focusing on only the moment and the bondage for a while. It can become almost meditative. Some rope bottoms even find the feeling of being bound relaxing, finding their body releases all tension.
It’s ‘Naughty’
Just like many other BDSM activities, a lot of people are attracted to rigger BDSM because it’s somewhat taboo or ‘naughty’. We naturally gravitate towards things that break the rules and that we aren’t supposed to do. We’ve all been there in some way, whether it’s breaking the rules at school for a laugh with your friends or trying something kinkier than you’re used to as an adult because it’s a turn on.
Ties In With Other BDSM Practices
The majority of people who engage in rigger BDSM are already involved in the BDSM scene in some way. It’s not typically the first thing someone gets into if they’re interested in trying BDSM. Rigging may follow on from other forms of bondage or may fit in with other BDSM practices like S&M (sadomasochism).
Everyone’s reasons will vary slightly because we’re all individuals. It’s important to note that as long as rigger BDSM is done completely consensually and safely, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Types of Rope Bondage Techniques
Rope bondage offers a wide range of techniques, each with its own unique appeal. Below are some of the most common techniques used by a rigger.
Shibari: The Art of Japanese Rope Bondage
Shibari, also known as Kinbaku, is the art of Japanese rope bondage that emphasizes intricate patterns and artistic expression. This technique focuses on the beauty and design of the ropes, transforming the act of tying into a form of artistic expression.
The selection of rope and the placement of knots in Shibari are crucial, allowing practitioners to express their creativity and vision through their ties. The rope bottom in Shibari must learn unique positions and develop strength and flexibility to ensure the positions have the desired aesthetic and emotional impact. This collaboration between rigger and rope bottom enhances the overall experience, making Shibari deeply intimate and visually stunning.
Suspension Bondage
Suspension bondage involves lifting the rope bottom off the ground. This technique requires a solid understanding of body movements and attachment points to ensure the safety and comfort of the bound partner.
Safety is paramount in suspension scenes as there are significant risks involved. The rigger must ensure ropes are not too tight to avoid cutting off circulation or causing nerve damage. Continuous communication helps monitor comfort levels and prevent injuries. With proper knowledge and precautions, suspension bondage can be a thrilling and deeply satisfying experience for both partners.
Self-Rigging
Self-rigging has become increasingly popular over recent years. It allows individuals to take on both the roles of rigger and submissive, enabling them to try rope bondage on their own. Many people find it also adds a unique psychological depth to the experience. People may use self rigging as a way to enhance masturbation or even as a way to practice their rigging skills before they try them on a partner.
This practice requires a strong emphasis on safety, as the individual must be able to manage and monitor their own well-being. They need to be able to escape safely and quickly when needed. It’s probably the most risky type of rigging, as there’s no one around to help you if needed. However, when it’s done safely, many kinksters find self rigging to be a rewarding practice.
Artistic Rope Bondage
Rope bondage can be seen as a highly artistic expression within BDSM, involving skill and creativity. It can transform the human body into a canvas, where each tie represents a unique story and emotional expression.
Aesthetics are extremely important in Shibari and Kinbaku, focusing on the art of tying ropes and creating beautiful patterns. In some cases, rope bondage is incorporated into performances, contemporary art, and photographs, showcasing its artistic and creative potential.
Tips For Being a Rigger
If you’re interested in being a rigger, the best thing you can do is learn from someone experienced. It’s safest to have someone teach you in person, demonstrating safety methods and safe techniques. However, this isn’t possible for everyone. You can also take an online rigger course, join rope bondage communities in person or online, and focus on learning as much as you can from videos and articles.
Becoming a skilled rigger requires commitment, patience, and practice. Essentially what I’m saying is, that being a rigger isn’t something you can just jump into spontaneously or pick up as you go. You need to start at the beginning and be ready to learn. I’ve included some top tips below to help give you some starting points.
Do Your Research and Know the Risks
Do as much research as possible so that you’re aware of what’s involved in rope bondage. There’s a fair amount of risk involved with this kink such as skin injury, nerve damage, joint dislocations, and more! It’s vital you understand the risks so you can make an informed decision. Fully understanding the risks also allows you to fully understand the safety practices you’ll have to put in place.
Choosing the Right Rope Materials
You can’t just use any rope for a rigging. You need the right materials for the submissive’s safety and comfort. There are lots of different ropes on offer.
Natural ropes, such as hemp, jute, and cotton, are popular choices due to their texture and feel against the skin. Synthetic ropes like nylon and polyester are known for their durability but can be slippery, so I wouldn’t recommend them for beginners. There are ropes of different thicknesses, strengths, and even colors. I’d recommend experimenting when you’re starting out to see what works best for you.
Learn Foundational Ties and Knots
Rope tops should thoroughly practice their techniques before working with a partner, mastering basic ties and knots. Once you learn the basics, you can build on them from there.
Key ties such as the double and single column tie form the basis of many bondage techniques. You need to start with these basics and be patient, rather than rushing ahead (that can lead to danger). As well as learning the right knots, you also need to learn the right techniques to securely and safely bind your partner. Of course, you’ll need to learn all the safety protocols too.
Safety Precautions and Tools
Speaking of safety, this is one of the most important parts of rigging. A rigger needs to be well-prepared and knowledgeable. I always recommend having safety shears or strong medical scissors at hand during any type of bondage. They’re crucial so you can release your sub quickly if needed.
Riggers should constantly monitor the tension of the rope. They also need to keep an eye on the bound partner’s condition to prevent discomfort and potential injury. This is where ongoing communication is key between Dom and sub!
Understanding anatomy is crucial to avoid compressing nerves or arteries, which can lead to serious health issues. Over-tightening ropes can cause circulation problems and serious nerve damage. This all sounds a bit scary, but by sticking to appropriate precautions it keeps everyone involved safe so you can enjoy the fun.
Safewords and Signals
Another vital part of safety during rigging, as well as any form of BDSM, is having a safe word. This is like an emergency stop signal. It’s a word that you don’t often use in other circumstances that either of you can say if you have reached your limit and want to stop. When it comes to bondage, especially if you’ll be involving gags, it’s worth having a non-verbal signal, too. This is also useful if one of the partners is deaf or struggles with speech.
Communication
Trust and communication are vital in any form of relationship, but they’re even more important in BDSM where things can be risky. The act of binding makes the rope bottom very vulnerable, meaning that you have to completely trust your partner. It’s basically putting your life in their hands! It can feel quite intense but it’s also amazing to be able to trust someone so much that you give them that power.
Communication is crucial to a successful rigging dynamic. Talk to your partner beforehand about any concerns and what might happen during the session. I highly recommend continuing to check in and communicate during your sessions so that you can express any discomfort and your rigger can make any adjustments that are needed.
Establishing Consent and Boundaries
Both partners need to fully consent to any activity done during rope bondage, just like with any other sexual activity. So riggers, make sure your sub is comfortable and enthusiastically consents to being bound!
It’s also vital that you understand each other’s boundaries. Discuss what’s off-limits and what you both feel comfortable with. Riggers should ensure they never cross their rope bottom’s boundaries. Remember that either person can ask to stop at any time and that should be respected.
Experimenting Together
Although a lot of the advice I’ve been giving about rigger BDSM sounds very serious, the whole point is to enjoy yourself! So experiment together to figure out what feels good and what excites you. Don’t be afraid to add in other elements, such as sex toys and other kinks and fetishes.
Aftercare
I always stress the importance of aftercare for all types of BDSM. After any session, you should check in with each other and reconnect, especially with something as intense as a rigger kink. Chat about how it went and what you’d like to change (or do again) next time. You can also use this time to rehydrate, take care of each other, and make sure the rope bottom doesn’t have any minor injuries.
Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
Mistakes in rope bondage often stem from a lack of awareness and communication between partners. Understanding common pitfalls and learning how to avoid them can make things so much safer. I’ve included common mistakes below.
Over-Tightening Ropes
Many beginners fail to properly gauge the tension of the ropes, leading to discomfort for the person being bound. Novice riggers often tie knots too tightly, which can cause circulation issues and result in injury.
The best way to prevent this is by learning all the basics before you try rigging with a partner. When you do start, go slow and keep lines of communication open with your rope bottom.
Ignoring Anatomy
Understanding human anatomy is crucial for preventing potential nerve damage and health issues during bondage sessions. Riggers also need to be prepared to adjust techniques to suit different bodies, such as disabled and plus-sized bodies. That’s if they’re going to be rigging with more than one partner, of course.
Keeping safety tools on hand and monitoring the rope bottom’s condition while bound is key.
Lack of Communication
We’ve already talked about just how important communication is between the rigger and their rope bunny. A lot of beginners don’t quite realize the level of communication needed. I can’t emphasize it enough – you need to be communicating with your partner throughout the whole experience.
Final Thoughts
Mastering rigger BDSM techniques involves a blend of art, safety, and communication. When it’s done right, rigging can be a powerful way to express yourself and connect with your partner. It can be truly beautiful!
If you’re ready to start your rigging journey, take your time and focus on learning the basics. Before you know it, you’ll be a pro!