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Best BJ Positions
No matter how many times you’ve seen it, this is the most beautiful vision in the world: your smoking hot girlfriend getting on her knees and getting ready to suck your cock, which is already leaking with obscene anticipation. You love to stand while she services you, and you’re surprised to hear her say something halfway between a suggestion and a command: “Sit in the chair.” Confused but still hard, you obediently sit down, and you begin enjoying the familiar sensation of her warm mouth enveloping your weeping member. Everything feels fantastic, but as she goes to work, you realize everything feels even better than ever.
What’s the difference, you ask yourself? As her tender ball massage produces a guttural moan from your dry lips, you realize that sitting down rather than standing up has transformed this blowjob into an unforgettable carnal experience. You still get the dominant thrill of seeing her kneel down and pleasure you, but that dominant feeling is even stronger on the throne. That’s how you see the chair now…a throne fit for a king, one whose pleasure is rising to a crescendo. You explode after she tugs on your royal jewels one last time, and you are left with a single thought in the twilight haze of post-nut clarity: it’s time for you and your Queen to explore an entire kingdom of different blowjob positions…
Relationships: Better When They Suck
There are few things that every single guy can agree on, but here’s one of them: sexually speaking, nothing feels better than a blowjob. But, as George Orwell might have written if he had PornHub, while all blowjobs are created equal, some are more equal than others.
Simply put, certain BJ positions feel better than others. Want to up your own blow job game or just add some more erotic tools to your naughty toolbox? Keep reading to discover our complete guide to the best blowjob positions!
The Layback Jack
The classic blowjob position involves the woman kneeling over her partner on the bed or couch and sucking on his penis. Guys typically love this position for multiple reasons, including the fact that they have a great view of their partner enthusiastically sucking cock. It’s also very comfortable…like, who wouldn’t want to just lay back and feel great?
For women, this position is popular because they maintain almost complete control, providing the peace of mind that makes giving blowjobs fun rather than a chore. Plus, it’s easy to go from this to different positions, including woman-on-top sex.
The Side-by-Side
What if you could 69 your partner and still be comfortable? That’s what the Side-by-side position is all about. In this position, each partner has ready access to the others’ genitals and can provide plenty of oral and digital stimulation. The relaxed position is easy on the back and knees, allowing for explosive orgasms with relatively little effort.
In addition to the physical pleasure and excitement, this position also provides great opportunities for emotional bonding with one another. You can easily hold each other, talk dirty, and just generally bond in a deeply intense way. And the fact that you’re already so comfortable after both of you come makes this one of the most reliable blowjob positions on this list!
The Reclined Throne
Some of the best oral sex positions simply provide a new spin on an old favorite. For example, many men traditionally stand up during a blowjob while the woman kneels down. But in the Reclined Throne position, the man lies back on a chair, sofa, or bed. This provides him with the same sexy, dominant view and allows him to be that much more comfortable as he lays back and experiences pleasure.
As with the classic position, many women love the Reclined Throne position because it gives them more control over depth and speed during oral sex. Plus, she has more ready access to the man’s ball and asshole, both of which may serve (with enthusiastic consent, of course) as areas of exciting sexual stimulation. Just be ready, though, as the added stimulation usually leads to a very big explosion!
The Reverse Blow Job
By now, you’ve probably figured out that the best blow job positions are those that combine physical stimulation with a great view. And for guys, it’s hard to beat the Reverse Blowjob for a killer view. This is when a woman lays on her back on the side or bottom of a bed with her head hanging off, allowing her partner to enter her mouth and generally control the speed and depth of the stimulation.
In addition to the view, guys typically love this position because it gives them easy access to much of their partner’s body. The woman has access to her partner’s body, too, and can easily provide anal stimulation from this position. And because this position has the man standing, his eventual explosion will feel even more intense thanks to the pressure on his abdominal muscles.
The 69 Position
What can we say about the 69 that hasn’t been said already? This is the classic position where one partner lies on the other, with each person facing the other’s genitals. This allows the couple to go down on each other at the same time, which can be very exciting for everyone involved.
Admittedly, some people (including us!) can have trouble actually cumming from this position because it can be difficult to concentrate on giving and receiving oral pleasure at the same time. Not everyone has that problem, though, and there are few things hotter than simultaneously cumming in the 69 position. If nothing else, keep this position in mind as a great foreplay method and one of the sexiest ways to receive a great blow job.
The Standing BJ
The Standing BJ involves the man standing upright while the woman kneels in front. In addition to the physical pleasure, this position is visually stimulating because it makes the man feel dominant, with his submissive partner kneeling down and focusing on servicing him. Ironically enough, that makes this position a staple of both those having sex for the first time and BDSM veterans who have incorporated this position into other kinks such as body worship.
Many women like this classic BJ position because it gives her more control of the angle and depth of the man’s penis in her mouth. Plus, maintaining eye contact with her partner is a great way to further enhance his pleasure. But comfort for the woman is key…remember, cushions or pillows can make comfier surfaces to kneel on compared to hard floors, and she should switch to her hands and dirty talk whenever her jaw starts getting tired and she needs a rest.
The Lazy Sunday
Here’s a confession: while we love wild and enthusiastic sex, we don’t always have the energy for it. Sometimes, the spirit is willing, but the flesh is just too weak! Fortunately, it’s possible to take it easy while still taking your pleasure to the next level, and that’s what the Lazy Sunday blowjob position is all about.
In this position, the woman can rest her head on a pillow or the man’s stomach while she’s laying sideways, providing pleasure with minimal movement as she sucks on her partner’s penis. In a word, this position is downright cozy, allowing both of you to relax. At least, until he tenses up in the best possible way, and after enough oral attention, you can be assured that his blast-off will be anything but “lazy!”
The Shower BJ
For many people, the only really annoying thing about a blowjob is the potential cleanup, especially if the man cums on his partner’s face or chest rather than inside her mouth. But what if you could make cleanup a snap? Shower sex is one of the best blowjob positions because it provides all of the physical and visual stimulation dudes crave while making cleanup easier than ever.
As for actually going down on someone in the shower, some women prefer to get on their knees, either directly on the ground or on a water-safe pillow or cushion. Meanwhile, the guy might stand up or sit in a shower alcove or even on a chair. Once you make sure everyone is safe and comfortable, consider playing around with the handheld showerhead to make things more exciting for both of you!
The Doctor BJ
Let’s be honest: “the Blow Job Doctor” would be the perfect name for either a porn video or somebody’s very niche TikTok channel. But it’s also the name of a position where the man leans back on a sofa as if he were in a therapy session. However, it’s not a therapist “blowing” his mind…instead, it’s a partner kneeling down and pleasuring him with her mouth.
This is another very comfy position, albeit more for the one receiving pleasure than giving it. And whether she’s into deep throating or has a killer gag reflex, this position offers the woman giving the blowjob some much-needed control over the entire affair.
Cumming to a Conclusion
Exploring the best blowjob positions can significantly enhance your oral sex game, bringing new dimensions of pleasure and intimacy to your relationship. Whether you want to focus only on your pleasure or engage in some mutual stimulation, there’s truly a bit of something for everyone to enjoy.
Before anyone’s mouth gets full, remember: communication is key. Be open about what you both want and you might be surprised to discover where your sex life goes. And wherever it leads you, remember: Know Your Sins will be here to help you make the most of it!