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Lazy Dog Position
Do you love doggy style but you’re just not in the mood for something so energetic? Then the lazy dog position is perfect for you. It provides tons of pleasure with much less effort – it’s a win all around!
This article will tell you everything you need to know about this position, as well as how to perform it.
What is The Lazy Dog Sex Position?
The lazy dog sex position is a relaxed variation of our beloved doggy style. Instead of the receiving partner being on their hands and knees, they lie on their stomach flat on the bed with their legs spread. The penetrating partner lies on top of them still entering them from behind.
Instead of focusing on energetic sex, it’s more about being sensual and enjoying skin-to-skin contact with your partner.
The lazy dog sex position can work for either anal or vaginal penetration. This also means it can work for any gender pairing.
I love this position because it’s much more accessible and easier to hold for longer periods than doggy. However, if you’re plus-sized you may need to make some adjustments to make this position comfortable.
Why Do People Love the Lazy Dog?
We’ve already talked about the main reason people love the lazy dog sex position – it’s more comfortable. Plus it requires less flexibility and strength than the classic doggy style.
It’s great for people with back or knee pain, or for those who struggle with chronic illnesses that cause fatigue like me. I prefer to think of it as an ‘energy-saving’ position, rather than a lazy one. It’s also perfect for those times when you just want to be close to your partner and have low-energy sex.
It’s also a wonderful position for close contact. Many couples find it can increase intimacy.
Since you’re so close, the penetrating partner can kiss their lover’s body. Or if you’re into something a little bit kinkier, they can pull their hair (I love this option) or put one hand around their partner’s neck.
The lazy dog sex position offers deep penetration which feels incredible. If the receiving partner is a vulva owner, you can achieve some amazing G-spot stimulation. And your hands are free to explore each other’s bodies! What’s not to love?!
How to Perform the Lazy Dog Sex Position
Ready to give it a try? Well, the great news is that getting into the lazy dog sex position is easy!
The receiving partner simply lies on any flat surface on their front. They spread their legs, similar to the banana split and can bend one leg up for easier access. If they prefer, they can raise the front of their body to support their weight on their hands or forearms.
The penetrating partner then lies on top of their lover with their knees slightly bent and hands on the bed on either side of their partner. They support their weight on their knees, legs, and hands. They can then enter their partner.
What Does the Receiving Partner Do in the Lazy Dog Sex Position?
The receiving partner lies on their front and enjoys themselves! They can move their hips or use pillows to adjust the angle of penetration.
What Does the Penetrating Partner Do in the Lazy Dog Sex Position?
The penetrating partner lies on top of their partner to enter them. They are the ones in control in this position. They can adjust the angle, depth, and rhythm of penetration.
Variations of the Lazy Dog
There are a couple of different variations of the lazy dog sex position that you can try to see what feels best for you and your partner.
Plugged Lazy Dog
If you have a vagina and fancy double penetration, how about adding a butt plug to spice things up while your partner focuses on vaginal sex?
Ok, I know that technically this is the same position, but you wouldn’t believe the difference a simple butt plug can make!
Raised Lazy Dog
The raised lazy dog is sort of like a mix between traditional doggy style and lazy dog.
The receiving partner is on their knees and bends forward to lean on a raised surface, like the stairs or the back of a sofa. They’re more upright than in the classic lazy dog. The penetrating partner is on their knees like they would be with traditional doggy style.
I prefer this option as a plus-sized person because it’s more accessible for larger bodies.
Leaning Lazy Dog
If the penetrating partner is heavier than the receiving partner, the leaning lazy dog might be easier for you both. It’s the same as the classic lazy dog except you’re leaning on the seat of a chair or any other surface to raise you both up.
The penetrating partner is still pressed against the back of their lover unlike the raised lazy dog.
Recommendations For Better Experience
Fancy trying this chilled, achievable position? Here are my top tips to help guide you:
Talk to your partner about what you want and what your boundaries are. Mutual consent is always key.
Use condoms to protect against STIs and clean sex toys thoroughly between uses.
Use pillows and props to make the position as comfortable as possible for you both.
Try different leg placements – you’ll be surprised how much moving one leg can do to change sensations.
Experiment with different variations of the position to see what works best for you both.
Incorporate sex toys like vibrators, cock rings, and butt plugs to spice things up.
Remember that the whole point of this position is slow, sensual sex so relax and enjoy yourself!
Your Turn to Play
The lazy dog sex position offers a comfortable yet intimate twist on the classic doggy style. We all love some sensual, slow sex sometimes, right? I know I do! I mean, what better way to unwind and relieve some stress?
So grab your partner, jump into bed, and have some fun relaxing together!