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Introduction
Imagine that you’re a woman who has successfully pulled off the fantasy of countless gals: arranging a threesome with two insanely hot dudes. A normal threesome might just involve oral and vaginal sex, but what if you’re feeling especially naughty? In that case, you might want to experiment with the kind of double penetration that would make your closest friends spit their coffee out if they learned about it.
If you dream about double penetration (anal penetration and all), you aren’t alone. This just means that you have a good, old-fashioned double penetration kink…the kind that features heavily in some of the internet’s steamiest porn videos. But what is the psychology behind this kink, and how can you get the most out of your next threesome or group sex session? Keep reading to find out!
What is Double Penetration?
The double penetration kink is relatively self-explanatory. As the name implies, this fetish deserves someone who likes to be penetrated by two objects (including dildos and vibrators) at the same time. Double penetration is most typically associated with women who have two penises inside them at the same time: one in their pussy and one in their ass. In fact, true DP specifically refers to simultaneous penetration of the vagina and anus.
There are plenty of reasons why people are into this kink (more on this later), but most of the psychology behind this fetish overlaps with other kinks. For example, those who want to experience DP with two penises rather than using a sex toy likely enjoy having threesomes. And if it’s a committed couple bringing a third into the bedroom for this sexual act, then one or more of the parties involved likely has the candaulism kink, which is a fancy term for wanting to show their partner off to others.
Like all kinks, the fantasy of being double penetrated (or being the penetrating partner doing it) has the potential to bring romantic partners closer together. Why is this, and what do you need to make this naughty fantasy into a reality? Keep reading to find out!
Why Are People Crazy About Double Penetration?
Let’s face it: plenty of people get squeamish about all things butt stuff. While there is such a thing as double vaginal penetration, traditional double penetration involves having either a toy or penis in both the anus and the vagina. And whether you’re squeamish or not, you probably have a big question: why are people into DP in the first place?
First of all, it’s very stimulating…literally! Your ass has plenty of nerve endings that are relatively close to the surface. That means that even light booty stimulation with something like a butt plug can enhance the sensation of a penis inside the vagina.
For those receiving the penetration, there’s also a feeling of fullness that can be incredibly hot. It’s basically an overload of sensations, giving you twice as many sexual sensations to experience all at once. As for the parties doing the penetration, most will find it visually stimulating (it helps that DP has become such a mainstay of porn).
There’s also mental stimulation because pulling off a double penetration session means both partners have plenty of trust in one another. Nobody involved should be worried that they will get hurt (like a literal pain in the butt!) or that bringing someone else into the bedroom won’t mess up the relationship. This trust helps build intimacy, as does trying new things together.
As an added bonus, DP might do more than add some spice to your relationship. It may also help both of you more openly discuss other fantasies that you wish to explore!
Anyone Can Enjoy Double Penetration – Fun and Easy Tips For Men and Women
If you’ve watched much porn, you’re probably used to the sight of women receiving double penetration. However, you should know that with both creativity and lube, it’s possible for men to experience this sensation through methods such as double anal penetration. If that sounds exciting, keep reading to discover how both sexes can make the most out of this hot kink.
For Men Exploring DP kink
Men can explore double penetration using various sex objects like toys, a penis, fingers, or strap-ons. If you’re a fellow who’s hesitant, keep in mind that there’s a G-spot hidden in your butt and stimulating it feels incredible. Here are just a few ways you can experience that naughty sensation for yourself.
Start with Toys: Use sex toys such as dildos or vibrators. One partner can use a toy while the other uses their penis. One obvious advantage of this is that you can buy smaller toys and work your way up to larger ones (or, you know, larger penises).
Add Fingers: One partner can use their fingers for anal stimulation while the other uses a toy or penis for vaginal penetration. It’s always good to start with this first because it’s so easy (all you need is a finger and some lube!) and because it helps the receiving partner figure out if they are into this or not.
Use Strap-Ons: Strap-ons can provide added flexibility. One partner wears a strap-on while the other uses their penis. If the idea sounds weird, surf on over to PornHub and look up some pegging videos or check out our article on Pegging. You might be surprised at how exciting they can be!
Change Positions: For DP to work, you may need to try positions to find what feels best. Popular positions include doggy style position and missionary sex position.
Communicate: Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences openly to ensure comfort and pleasure for everyone involved. You may also wish to develop a safe word so that things don’t go too far.
Stimulate All Areas: The partner’s G spots is an obvious target for stimulation during anal penetration. But try different angles and different levels of thrusting intensity so that he can feel the most pleasure and discover what he does (and doesn’t) like.
For Women Exploring DP kink
It may look daunting for those petite ladies onscreen, but trust us when we say that women can enjoy DP with different tools and scenarios. Here’s a guide to getting started and making the experience enjoyable:
Start with Simple Toys: You don’t have to overthink things when getting started. Use a dildo fastened to a harness or a vibrator with an anal plug for beginners. And if you like it straight to the point, you can try a double ended dildo, which is my personal favorite. Lay on your back, hold it in both hands and insert one end vaginally and the other end anally, going at a slow, steady pace. Then, adjust the intensity based on your comfort. Double penetration can feel intense, especially solo. Pause if you feel discomfort or need to adjust the toy.
Threesome Kink: Explore threesome kink scenarios with using dildos and sex toys. If both of you are comfortable, this can lead to a flesh-and-blood threesome.
Try Cunnilingus positions: Incorporate oral sex while being penetrated in one or both holes for additional pleasure. A gentle finger up the butt while you eat someone out can help them discover if they might actually have a true double penetration.
Change Positions: Experiment with different sex positions to find what feels best. Traditionally, women’s favourite choices include cowgirl position and spooning sex position.
Use Lube: Plenty of water-based lube is essential to prevent discomfort and ensure smooth penetration. It’s always important, but ass play makes lube downright mandatory!
Enjoy Fun with Double Penetration!
Double penetration (DP) is a wild and very exciting way to explore new levels of intimacy and pleasure with your partner. But hey, DP isn’t the only fun thing to try! Here are a few other kinks and fetishes to explore with your partner:
Rope Bondage: Add some ropes and trust to your playtime. It’s exciting and can spice things up!
Role-Playing: Ever wanted to be someone else for a night? Act out different fantasies and see where it takes you.
Sensory Play: Use blindfolds, feathers, or ice to heighten your senses. Discover new forms of pleasure together.
Impact Play: Light spanking or flogging can introduce new physical sensations. Remember, start gently and keep communicating.
You don’t have to be ashamed of your double penetration kink. Everyone has a fetish, and there are more people out there who share your passion than you might think. If you’d like to find a supportive community of likeminded kinksters, join the Know Your Sins community and leave your double penetration fantasies and experiences in the comments. If you need us, we’ll just be writing down all the raunchy stuff you tell us for our next bedroom romp with another partner!
