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What are Body Mods?
Most of us have at least one or two piercings or tattoos these days. I don’t know about you, but I have quite a few tattoos! Whether you love them or hate them, we see them everywhere (though I’m guessing you’re a fan since you’re here).
These piercings and tattoos are technically body modifications. But what does that phrase actually mean? And can it really be part of a fetish?
This article will answer all of those questions and more. Let’s dive into everything you need to know about body mods.
Body Modification: The Basics
What Is a Body Modification?
This is a polarising topic in today’s society. So before we start, let’s clarify what exactly qualifies as body modification.
Body modification, or body alteration, refers to the purposeful altering of the body for non-medical reasons. This can be to change the appearance or alter body image.
Today, it includes everything from mainstream practices like tattoos, piercings, and tanning to plastic surgeries like breast implants and lip augmentation. It can even include more intimate changes like penis enlargement and labiaplasty.
You might be surprised to know that this can also include dental transformations! Essentially, anything that deliberately alters the appearance of the body is a body modification.
What Is a Body Modification Fetish?
A fetish is a sexual fascination or attraction to something that isn’t usually seen as ‘sexual’. This can include body parts and objects. People can have all sorts of fetishes.
To put it simply, a body modification fetish is a sexual attraction to body modifications.
People with this type of fetish may be sexually attracted to people who have body mods or find it arousing to get body mods themselves.
A true fetish means that the individual needs the presence of their sexual fixation to get turned on or climax. If you find people with body mods attractive but don’t need that to enjoy sex (like me), then it’s more of a sexual preference than a fetish.
Anyone of any gender or sexuality can have a body modification fetish. They’re way more common than you might think!
Why Do People Enjoy Body Modifications?
If you’re wondering: “Why do people like body modifications?” Then you’re in the right place – let’s take a closer look.
While it’s often done for aesthetic reasons, it can also be done for sexual enhancement, sexual pleasure, religious reasons, and so on.
Experts suggest that body modification can be a powerful way for individuals to take control of their bodies and shape their identities. By altering their appearance, people often experience a boost in confidence.
Unfortunately, some people do turn to body alteration because of poor body image. Due to constantly changing beauty standards and the pressure people face as a result, both men and women are prone to trying to achieve the ‘perfect’ body.
Yet for others, it’s a much more positive experience. Many people feel empowered by their ability to transform themselves and take control of their appearance. Some use it as an additional means of self-expression. It gives people a way to highlight their individuality and sense of style. Plus, it’s just plain fun, in my opinion.
For some people, it can be particularly empowering. For example, those who may have been repressed, overlooked, or seen as ‘weak’ by society. I’m a disabled, plus-sized, queer woman, making me part of a few minorities. Being able to decorate my body and dress how I like is a beautiful thing. It’s like declaring that I’m allowed to take up space, that I’m allowed to stand out in a crowd (and not just because people see me as someone to pity).
When body modification becomes more than a form of expression and has a sexual element, it becomes a fetish.
On a psychological level, this kink may help people feel more connected to others. The act of making changes itself may also be therapeutic, allowing people to let go of feelings and create a path of transformation and rebirth.
Some people pursue modifications with a specific goal in mind, such as introducing new sexual sensations or enhancing sexual pleasure.
Those with body modification fetishes may also have other kinks and fetishes. For example, they may alter their bodies to enhance their sissification and dollification fetish. Or they may use it for domination and submission roleplay in BDSM. There are even people who make a penis or vagina for futanari role-playing. The possibilities are endless!
Culture and Religion in Body Modification
The topic of body modification has a rich cultural and historical background. Let’s investigate how body alterations have been practiced across different regions:
Foot Binding in Asia: In China, the practice of foot binding was seen as a symbol of beauty and status. It remained a popular tradition for nearly a thousand years before being banned in the 20th century.
Corsets in Europe: During the Victorian era, women used corsets to achieve an “hourglass figure,” symbolizing femininity and social status.
Face Tattoos in Oceania: The Māori people of New Zealand practice ta moko, traditional face tattoos that symbolize ancestry and social rank.
Lip Plates in Africa: For the women of some African tribes, lip plates serve as symbols of femininity and maturity.
These practices demonstrate that body modification continues to hold significant cultural and religious meaning today.
It’s important to note that any body mods we talk about in this article are done only on consenting adults.
Types of Popular Body Modifications
Let’s take a look at some of the more common body alterations as well as more extreme body modifications.
Simple Body Modification
These are the type of human body mods you’re probably used to seeing or hearing about. There are lots, but a few of the most common include:
Ear piercing
Body piercing (lips, nose, tongue, belly button, etc)
Tattoos
Botox
Lip fillers
Laser treatments
Tanning
Breast augmentation
Facelifts & Rhinoplasty
For those who enjoy exploring more unconventional or temporary forms of body modification, play piercing offers a unique and artistic way to engage with the body.
Extreme Body Modification
Extreme body modification is growing in popularity, particularly in the fetish community. These mods include:
Scarification and branding: Deliberately scarring the skin as a form of branding or S&M play.
Implants: Silicone beads and other foreign items are placed beneath the skin, either to achieve a certain look or to increase sensation in the genitals for sexual pleasure.
Tongue splitting: Yep, this is what it sounds like. The tongue is split in two to create a ‘fork’. This can be to change your appearance or introduce new sensations during kissing and foreplay.
Eye tattooing and eye piercings: Body alterations around the eyes are particularly high-risk and are usually done to achieve a specific appearance.
Tooth filing: Having the teeth filed can change their appearance. Some people use it to achieve an animal appearance for a pet play kink, or even for the sake of a vampire or monster fetish.
Suspension piercings: Some people use piercing play with hook suspension implants. Basically, they use piercings to hang submissive partners in the air as a form of bondage.
These are only a few of the extreme body modification options available – there are many more!
Is a Body Modification Fetish a Disorder?
There’s a lot of stigma and misconceptions around both fetishes and body modifications. So when you combine the two, of course, people have some questions and strong opinions.
The simple answer is, no, body modification fetishes aren’t a mental health disorder. They’re not ‘wrong’ or ‘perverted’.
If it’s fun and doesn’t negatively impact your life, then there’s nothing wrong with it. You get to do what you feel is right for your body – your body, your choice!
Are Body Mods Dangerous?
Yes, body mods come with some risks, and extreme options can be dangerous. Potential risks include permanent scarring, infection, and nerve or tissue damage. For many, the emotional and psychological benefits far outweigh these concerns.
It’s important to make sure that any body alteration is your choice, not something done to meet someone else’s expectations. Do your research and make an informed decision that’s right for you.
Final Thoughts
I hope this has helped clarify why and how this fetish can be exciting for some people. At KYS, we aim to contribute to a more sexually inclusive world.
There are lots of other philias and kinks waiting for you to explore. It could be a dental fetish, age play, or even formicophilia!
Remember, your journey with body modification is entirely your own. Enjoy the process!