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Latex Fetish
My girlfriend and I descended into the underground dungeon, eager to try something new together. People in shiny, skin-tight latex outfits greeted us.
The air was thick with anticipation and the faint sound of latex squeaking.
“This is wild,” I said, and she nodded with excitement.
A striking woman in a red latex catsuit was performing in one corner. She ran a latex whip over her body before teasing a blindfolded submissive. The sub’s soft moans punctuated the air with each strike of the whip.
“Fuck, I’ve never seen anything like this before,” my girlfriend said, both nervous and aroused.
We wandered through the club, discovering various BDSM rooms where latex-clad guests engaged in all kinds of sensual activities.
The best part was the latex performers who mingled with the guests in crotchless latex suits. The sights, sounds, and smells were intoxicating!
“This is incredible,” I said, with a voice full of lust.
We made our way over to a dark corner and began to experiment. My girlfriend embraced her role as a dominatrix.
She loved the power she felt as she blindfolded me and ran her gloved hands over my body.
“Are you ready to explore?” she asked. My aroused moans gave her the answer she needed…
What is Latex?
Let’s start with the basics – what exactly is latex? You’ve probably heard of it. It’s a shiny material that has several uses.
Latex was popularized by reality stars, pop stars, and other celebrities. Remember Lady Gaga’s Atsuko Kudo red latex dress she wore to meet the queen? How iconic!
Latex is made from the substance produced by the Hevea Brasiliensis tree (also known as the rubber tree). Basically, latex is a mixture of rubber, water, and some other materials.
What Exactly is a Latex Fetish?
To put it simply, a latex fetish is an attraction to latex. Within the world of kinks and fetishes, this attraction usually revolves around latex clothing and accessories.
Someone who has this type of fetish may find it arousing to see other people wearing latex or find it exciting to wear latex themselves (or both). Who can blame them – I mean, have you seen a woman wearing a tight latex outfit? In my opinion, it’s undeniably sexy!
People may also include latex sex toys, condoms, and other accessories in their sensory play.
In the fetish world, you’ll often hear people who love latex referred to as “rubberists”! Rubber and latex are used interchangeably in this world (and in our article).
Anyone of any gender or sexual orientation can introduce latex into their sex life.
If you’re new to the world of latex fetishes, you’re in the right place. We’ll cover all the basics in this article to help you decide if it’s something you want to explore.
Why Does Latex Turn People On?
Now that we know the basics of latex, you might be wondering “But, why does latex turn people on?” Good question! There isn’t one specific answer – there are many.
Latex became popular for sexual use in the 19th century due to how it appeals to the senses. Since then, the latex fetish has grown massively!
Since we’re all individuals with different tastes and desires, there are a variety of reasons people find latex arousing. Let’s take a closer look.
A Sense of Control
Many latex fetishists find wearing rubber empowering. Think of superheroes. They often wear latex costumes or similar tight materials, and they’re incredibly powerful characters. This similarity can make people feel stronger when they step into their rubber outfits.
Some people find that latex can enhance BDSM play. Wearing latex can allow people to transition into dominant and submissive roles easily. It’s almost like putting on the latex is a symbol of the role they’re playing.
In my experience, it can feel particularly empowering to explore your sexual desires (especially if they’ve been repressed previously). Adding latex into the mix is a visual indication that you are on this exploration journey and aren’t afraid to show it!
Amplifying Your Senses
Many rubber fetishists find that latex can magnify physical sensations during foreplay and sexual intercourse.
New York-based latex designer ‘The Baroness’ states that: “It’s the most sensual fabric there because it has a unique look, smell, taste, sound, and feel.”
Appearance
Perhaps the most arousing part of latex is how it looks. It has a shiny, smooth, and very aesthetically pleasing appearance.
This lustrous appearance creates a mesmerizing wet look. The wet look can be enhanced with the use of polish or lube, which is very common in the latex fetish community.
Of course, we can’t ignore how hot it is to see the material clinging to the body of your partner and accentuating their curves!
A 2021 Polish survey found that when asked what they liked about wearing latex, 95% of participants said they loved how it hugs the body while 90% said they loved the shiny appearance.
Touch and Feel
Latex garments fit tightly to the body which can feel very sensual on the skin. It’s been described as a ‘second skin’ by some kinksters. Others say it’s like being in a ‘tight embrace’. This in itself can be arousing. The survey mentioned earlier found that 83% of participants loved the feeling of wearing latex.
Latex has a sleek, smooth feeling when it’s touched. This can make touch more pleasurable for the receiver and the giver. The feel of latex over armpits could appeal to those who enjoy the sensory aspect of armpit fetishism. Wearing latex can make you more sensitive to touch, temperature, and pressure. It’s easy to see how that can make sex more exciting! If increased sensations are what you’re after, I highly recommend ultra-thin latex over regular latex.
Smell and Taste
I think we all know that our sense of smell and taste play very important roles when it comes to sex. Well, latex has a characteristic odor and taste.
The smell is caused by the chemicals used to create the latex clothing. The scent is often described as ‘clean’ or ‘sharp’.
Remember the survey from earlier? 53% of participants said the smell was what they liked most about latex.
The taste is unique and hard to describe, but plenty of people find it arousing.
Sound
Yes, that’s right – even the sound of latex can be arousing!
The squeaking sound the material makes when you move introduces an auditory aspect to the fetish. This can make the experience more immersive.
Increasing Confidence
Plenty of people struggle with confidence or have insecurities about their bodies. Let’s face it, we’ve all been there!
For individuals struggling with confidence, latex can provide a feeling of protection. It’s like being naked, but without being fully exposed. It covers ‘imperfections’ while still allowing you to show off your body.
Some people find that stepping out of their ‘usual’ clothes and into something they define as ‘sexy’ allows them to feel more attractive.
You know that one outfit you have in your closet that you always feel confident in? The one that’s your ‘go-to’ if you’re going on a date or out with friends? Well, for many people latex has the same effect.
A New Identity
A latex outfit can provide some anonymity or a sense of mystery, which is an alluring thought. This is especially true if your outfit covers most of your face.
Many rubber fetishists say that when they put on their latex, it’s like they’re taking on a new identity for a while. They’re stronger, kinkier, and sexier. It’s transformative, like an escape from day-to-day life. And we could all use some of that at times!
Pairing Latex With Other Kinks
Latex is very versatile and complements many other kinks and fetishes. For example, it’s very popular with people who enjoy bondage and other forms of BDSM. Often the two go hand in hand.
Similarly, a balloon fetish often overlaps with a latex fetish, as balloons are typically made of the same material.
Latex can also be worn with fetish wear made of other materials, such as PVC (polyvinyl chloride). PVC fetishism is common for many of the same reasons as latex fetishism. Therefore, many fetishists like to play with both PVC and latex rubber.
Is Having Latex Fetish Bad?
There’s so much stigma around fetishes. They can be seen as ‘freaky’ or ‘weird’, which can result in people feeling ashamed of what they find arousing. Yet fetishes are very common and according to science, are completely ‘normal’.
Having a latex fetish isn’t a bad thing. In fact, I think that exploring the sexual side of yourself is an incredibly positive thing.
As long as it’s consensual and isn’t harming anyone, then a latex fetish can be a beautiful part of your sexual journey.
Rubber fetishism only becomes an issue if it’s interfering with your ability to function in your daily life, or if it’s causing distress to you or others. In that case, it would be classed as a “fetishistic disorder” and talking to a therapist could be helpful.
If you are simply enjoying your fetish and it enhances your life, then there’s no reason to feel shame or guilt. Enjoy yourself and give yourself the freedom to be who you really are!
Types of Latex Fetish Play
There are lots of different types of latex wear and ways to play with latex including:
Power play/BDSM: Latex can enhance dominant and submissive play, as we mentioned earlier. You could introduce latex undergarments, form-fitting latex clothes, latex harnesses, gags, and so much more!
Sensory play: Add some spice to your experience by incorporating sensory play. This involves neutralizing one or more senses or introducing new sensations. Tools like latex hoods, ball gags, blindfolds, arm binders, collars, and cuffs are commonly used in the rubberist community. One of my favorite options is latex whips or floggers as I find them great for heightening arousal.
Roleplay: Lots of people love sexy role-playing, and latex outfits and accessories can be a great addition to this. One of the more popular forms of roleplay in the latex community is the pet play kink. It’s a type of BDSM dynamic where one person plays the role of a pet. Medical roleplay is also common, involving latex gloves in place of surgical gloves.
Playing with toys: A latex fetish isn’t just about dressing up! You can also use latex sex toys, like rubber dildos or vibrators.
Tips For Experimenting With Latex
Exploring latex fetish for the first time can be exciting but a bit daunting. Here are some recommendations to help you get started and stay safe:
Start small: You don’t want to jump in headfirst, invest lots of money, and then find out it’s not for you. While you’re figuring things out, start with smaller, easily accessible latex pieces like gloves, toys, or latex underwear. This can also help you to feel less overwhelmed.
Start flexible: No, I’m not talking about how flexible your body is. I’m talking about thinner latex items that are more flexible. Lower gauge garments are thinner, making them easier to get on and off if you’re new to the scene. They’re also less likely to make you feel claustrophobic or overheated.
Talk to your partner: If you already have a partner or lover, make sure you talk to them. Ensure you’re both on the same page and understand each other’s boundaries before trying any type of new sexual play. If you’re going to involve bondage, consider choosing a safe word. Consent and communication ensure you’re both safe and happy.
Use baby powder or lube: This can be helpful when putting on and removing latex outfits. It also reduces friction, making for a more comfortable wear. Use one that’s as natural as possible with few additives. I found out the hard way that some powders in particular can damage your latex.
Stay hydrated: This might sound silly, but latex can make you sweat more (trust me, I’m speaking from experience). You’re also far more likely to sweat if you’re getting down and dirty while wearing the latex. So, make sure you’re drinking plenty of water to prevent dehydration.
Have fun: Don’t forget, the whole point is to have fun! Try not to put too much pressure on yourself or your partner. Relax and enjoy the new sensations.
How to Connect With Other Latex Fetishists
People with fetishes frequently seek community. It’s no surprise since it can be quite isolating to feel ‘outside the norm’. But there are plenty of other people with a rubber fetish just like you. They’re all over the internet! You can find them on social media or fetish sites like Fetlife.
Depending on where you live, you might find local fetish clubs or communities that run latex fetish events. You could even set one up yourself if you’re feeling brave!
You can share your story anonymously or openly with the KYS community by emailing hello@knowyoursins.com.
It can be nerve-wracking to start with, but the latex community is well known to be welcoming and super friendly to newcomers.
The main thing to remember is that you’re not alone, even if it can feel that way sometimes.
Final Thoughts: Latex is Sexy!
Involving latex in your sexual play can be so erotic! Hopefully, this article gave you an insight into why so many people enjoy latex play and how you can try it if you’re a beginner.
If a latex fetish isn’t your thing, don’t worry! We have plenty of guides on different kinks and fetishes to inspire you.
No matter which fetish you choose, start off slowly and steadily. Remember to move at a pace that’s comfortable for both you and your partner. And don’t forget to have fun!
