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Yoni Worship
“Why do you love this so much?”
Your girlfriend has a deep voice, but it still sounds muffled with your head between her legs. She had been playfully holding your face between her thighs, but her face now looks serious in its earnest curiosity. Belatedly, you realize what led to her question…she was teasing you with her feet even with your face trapped between your legs when she felt your cock, hard as a steel rod and leaking so much precum that the bed already had a huge wet spot before the two of you had sex. The answer pours from your lips as ready as the seed leaking from your penis: “because your pussy deserves to be worshiped.”
It’s the kind of line that would have felt too cheesy even in a cheap smut novel, but she doesn’t seem to mind. In fact, her serious face has broken into a contented smile as she gently guides your head down to her waiting cunt. You’ve tasted her countless times before, but this is different…you find yourself inhaling her aroma, your tongue approaching her pussy with all the reverence of a priest on Sunday Mass.
This is no church service, but there is a baptism, your soul reborn as her juices begin flowing freely down your face. Soon, she squirts in orgasm for the first time, and your straining cock explodes even without her touch. As it turns out, worshiping this goddess’ pussy had gotten you off like never before, and you can’t wait for her to take you to church again.
The Basics of Pussy Worship
Just about everyone (sorry, gay guys) understands the pleasure of eating pussy. But what if the act of cunnilingus feels a bit like going to church in the naughtiest possible way? In that case, you might be looking for more of a religious experience in the bedroom because you, my friend, are into pussy worship.
This is officially known as yoni worship (or yoni puja), and it hearkens back to ancient civilizations and rituals in which the vagina (the yoni) is a source of divine feminine strength and power. That power has always been a source of fascination. That’s why, to this day, there are Hindu traditions that are all about worshiping the feminine deities as a way of accessing the spiritual power they contain.
Some of those who are into pussy worship love the idea of embracing this divine power as a spiritual practice…and others, in the words of Missy Elliott, simply enjoy going downtown and eating like a vulture. No matter why you enjoy going down on your favorite woman, this guide will help you worship her body like never before.
Take Her To Church
If you’re reading this, it’s because you love eating pussy. But that brings up an important question: What’s the difference between simply tasting your partner’s vagina and worshiping it? The rest of this guide will help you unpack that question, but it all comes down to intent, and execution.
The act of worship means that you are actively trying to connect with your partner on an emotional and spiritual level rather than a physical one. At this point, you’re not just trying to make her cum…you’re also focused on providing the kind of intense worship that makes her feel like nothing short of a goddess.
That’s it for intent; as for execution, you could borrow from some of those ancient civilizations and practice eye contact, shared breathing, and the gentle exploration of each other’s bodies. It may sound a little odd if you’re not already a spiritual person, but all of this can help transform your bedroom into a sacred space for exploration and discovery.
Just make sure this sacred space has some towels and mats on hand before the religious service starts, though!
Understanding Pussy Worship
The first time you hear it, the term “pussy worship” might make you giggle. But the truth is that yoni worship in some form or another is as old as civilization itself. Those civilizations developed religions that were all about helping humanity access the spiritual, and female deities were a major part of influential cultures like Ancient Greece.
Eventually, the vagina itself became a center of the feminine power that was once associated with goddesses like Athena or Aphrodite. The term ‘yoni’ translates to womb, origin, source, and vulva in Sanskrit, representing a sacred passage and the cosmic womb that embodies the source of life and nurturing. Worshiping a woman’s genitals, then, is a way of worshiping her life-giving and creative powers in the most sensual way.
Speaking of sensuality, many worship traditions involve engaging the senses and loving a woman’s pussy for its appearance, smell, taste, and so on. As for the woman being worshiped, the act is often one of wholeness and healing because it helps her embrace self-acceptance while replacing negative self-criticism with a more positive view of one’s body. Done right, it can help both partners foster a deeper connection with the woman’s uniquely feminine energy.
The Historical Roots of Yoni Worship
As with many kinks we cover on Know Your Sins, pussy worship is a very modern-sounding practice that actually originated many Millennia ago. Experts have determine that the practice likely predates written history, with roots extending back to the pre-Vedic period around 4000 BCE. The practice is common in both Hinduism and Tantra, where it is known as yoni puja. In these cultures, the yoni is often viewed as a symbol of the cosmic womb, embodying the source of all life.
This act historically goes well beyond oral sex. Rituals around the yoni (ones intended to celebrate life and creative energy) often include blessings and consecration, reaffirming its sacred status in women’s spirituality. Artistic expressions reflecting yoni symbolism are found across various spiritual traditions, emphasizing its importance in cultural contexts.
Preparing for Pussy Worship
All of this has been a fun history lesson so far, but we know what you really want: a practical guide to worshiping your girl’s pussy. To do it right, though, you’re going to need to take few important steps so that both of you can prepare for a night of spiritual and sexual ecstasy.
Start by honestly and openly discussing what each of you would like to do (or not do!) during pussy worship. Maybe she wants you to touch her in certain ways or address her by titles such as “Goddess“…maybe you like the power dynamic aspect and would like your goddess to issue you commands. You’ll never know what someone’s yums or yucks are, though, without taking the time to find out.
Next, you need to create the right ambiance. Light some candles, play soft music, and considering wearing comfortable clothes like robes. The idea, ultimately, is to create a truly sacred space. After all, you’re about to take her to church in the juiciest possible way!
Presence and Connection
One of the most important elements of pussy worship is both partners feeling present in the moment and fully connected with one another. Intense eye contact, deep breathing, and kneeling down before her are all ways of establishing a powerful connection while emphasizing this as a sacred act. Take your time while worshiping her body, and be ready for some powerful emotions…in fact, one or both of you might be crying in joy before the night is over.
Creating a Sacred Space
To create a sacred space during yoni worship, incorporate beautiful fabrics, fragrant oils, candles, and flowers. These elements enhance the experience of pussy gazing, allowing for a more profound connection. They can also be incorporated in a kind of roleplay…for example, a man may offer candles and flowers to his woman’s pussy as a gesture of respect before he begins worshiping her body with his tongue.
The Ritual of Pussy Gazing
While yoni worship involves plenty of oral sex, some of it involves no sexual contact at all. For example, pussy gazing is a form of silent admiration directed towards the yoni, emphasizing appreciation without any physical touch. By staring reverently at a woman’s pussy, a man or her female partner can get themselves into the right mindset of love and devotion. Whether this gazing lasts seconds, minutes, or even hours is completely up to you!
Expressing Reverence Through Words
Religious services involve plenty of talking, and pussy worship is no exception. In addition to eye contact and pleasurable massage, a good pussy worshipper will issue verbal expressions of love. This may be in the form of prepared poems, extemporaneous speech, or even dirty talk off the top of his head. However he uses his words, the goal is the same: to make his goddess feel both loved and desired. And if you’re the one doing the worshiping, remember this: oral sex isn’t the only way you can drive her crazy with your tongue!
Gentle Exploration and Touch
Gentle exploration and touch are essential aspects of pussy worship. It is important to observe your partner’s reactions and responses to ensure they are enjoying the experience. Before directly touching the yoni, start by lightly touching and massaging areas around the thighs and stomach to build intimacy. Remember to maintain constant communication, both to verify she is enjoying the worship and to engage in activities like breathing together.
Scent and Taste
Embracing the unique scent and taste of the yoni is fundamental to deepening connection and honoring individuality. Each woman has a unique scent and taste that can vary over time. Partners should express their love for their partner’s uniqueness, not only is this a major part of pussy worship, but it can help many women feel more comfortable with their bodies.
Massage Techniques
Incorporating massage techniques in pussy worship can enhance the overall experience. The focus of a pussy massage concentrates on the whole body and then the pussy. Starting with a body massage, including the belly and breasts, can enhance the experience before focusing on the yoni. As for sexual stimulation, the woman should dictate the sensations she desires (including oral sex, fingers, toys, etc) and whether she’d be interested in edging or not before she cums.
Regular Practice and Its Benefits
It’s usually not hard to sell someone on pussy worship…like, who wouldn’t to dive between their partner’s thighs and make her feel like a goddess? But if you’re on the fence, there are great reasons to engage in worship, including that it enhances intimacy, emotional connection, and body positivity for you and your partner. Done well, worship can help to heal sexual trauma, increase libido, and help both of you discover more about what turns you both on.
Pussy Worship: Your Religion
Yoni worship is a profound practice that honors the divine feminine and fosters deeper connections between partners. By engaging in various rituals such as pussy gazing, partners can enhance their intimacy and body positivity. Regular practice of yoni worship can lead to emotional and physical healing, transforming perceptions of pleasure into a sacred and healing act.
Ready to take your worship to the next level? Here at Know Your Sins, we encourage you to embrace everything that turns you on, and don’t forget that we’re always here to help you make the most of every moment in the bedroom (or out of it for you kinky little exhibitionists!).