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How to Neck Play Right in Sensual Neck fetish?

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Neck Fetish

It’s rush hour, and I’m in a crowded subway, on my way home from yoga. My hair is tied up in a bun at the back of my head, leaving my neck fully exposed.

Somehow, one of the men – I don’t know who, and in my excitement I can’t turn to see – moves closer behind me. His hot breath hits the bare skin of my neck, making my whole body tense up instantly. I can still hear the music in my ears, but all I can focus on is the warmth of his breath and how exposed my neck feels beneath it.

I can feel his erection through his pants as he signals me with a touch to turn my hips more directly toward him. I know it’s wrong – every rational part of me screams to move away – yet the sensation of his breath on my neck makes me want to give in, to surrender. I imagine him doing all the impossible things to my neck, and other body parts… I want to be a whore with a stranger I’ll never see again…

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There’s a little something out there for everyone when it comes to what gets people going. And for some, that “something” just happens to be the neck. While most of us enjoy a little kissing or caressing around the neck area, neck worship kink and neck fetishes take that passion to another level.

At KYS, we’re here to clear up any misconceptions or concerns you might have about neck fetishes. Our goal is to give you a better understanding of what it’s like to experience Neck Fetish or how to understand someone who enjoys it.

What Exactly is A Neck Fetish?

A neck fetish is when one becomes sexually aroused by the neck as simple as that. It’s not just about enjoying the neck during foreplay. Most people like to kiss, lick, or gently caress the neck, but that doesn’t necessarily make it a sexual fetish. The line is drawn when the neck becomes the main focus of one’s sexual arousal, making it a source of primary attraction.

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The Beauty of the Female Neck

For many neck fetishists, the neck is seen as a small body part itself, with its unique curves, softness, and even scent. Fetishists often admire specific features, like the nape of the neck or the suprasternal notch, which can hold as much importance as any other erogenous zone on the body.

Other reasons why the neck may be the object of one’s affection is that they like to examine the skin, blue veins underneath, the curves of the neck, or the muscles moving as the head turns.

The neck is often decorated with jewellery, scarves, or covered by long hair, making the act of uncovering it feel like undressing a hidden part of the body. Just like we find our private parts (genitals) more attractive because they’re usually covered by clothes, the same idea applies to the neck.

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Why Do People Fetishize the Neck?

It’s true that the neck is a vulnerable part of the body that’s extremely sensitive, making it a delicate and sensual area. Not just that, by hiding female neck behind long hair, scarves and accessories, can lead one to be aroused at the thought of undressing the bare neck.

In addition to the curves, softness, and beauty this area also holds the scent of each person, which can be an added element of attraction. Some neck fetishists might even enjoy sucking or biting their partner’s neck to leave love bites as proof of their admiration.

Another reason why people fetishize the neck is because neck is loaded with nerve endings, making it an erogenous zone. This means that even the smallest of gentle touches, licking, or kisses has the power to give goosebumps and an increased level of sexual arousal.

With this, it’s not hard to see why some have a neck fetish. One may love to tease their partner by gliding the skin with their fingertips, kissing or biting the neck, or engaging in (light) choking during sexual activity.

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Neck Nudity & Shaved Head

For some neck fetishists, a shaved head can be particularly attractive. The sudden exposure of a previously hidden neck can create a sense of “neck nudity” that triggers arousal.

The contrast between the tanned skin of the neck and the lighter scalp can also carry erotic connotations. Whether it’s the act of revealing the neck by lifting hair or seeing a freshly shaved neck, the vulnerability and visibility of the area intensify the attraction.

How to Safely Explore Neck Sexual Fetish?

I know, exploring a neck fetish can make you feel sexually excited and sometimes forget about safety, but like any fetish, it should always start with consent and continue to prioritize it throughout. The neck is highly sensitive and, as such, needs to be treated with care.

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How to Neck Play with Your Partner?

When it comes to neck play, less is more at the start.

Begin gently. Light kisses, small licks, or soft breaths on the nape of the neck can create sensations that make the skin tingle. Gradually increase the intensity of your sexual desire based on your partner’s reactions. Communicating throughout the experience will help you understand what works best for both of you.

Another great way to tease your partner is by using different pressures: soft nibbles, gentle sucking, or a firm massage. If you want to leave a love bite or hickey, make sure your partner is agreed in advance first. These visible marks can serve as a playful reminder of your time together.

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Sensual Play in Neck Fetish

Since neck is an incredibly sensitive area loaded with nerve endings, especially the back side and its a well known erogenous zone, even small touches and kisses can lead to be sexually aroused
It’s this heightened sensitivity that makes neck fetishism so really tempting for both those with and without a neck fetish.

For people with this sexual fetish, the neck is particularly sensitive to changes in temperature, making it perfect for experimenting with gentle breath, cold objects, or even warm rub with oils during a massage.

There are many ways to explore neck play. I personally like to play with some accessories.

Slowly removing or adjusting necklaces, chokers, and even scarves can amplify sexual experience. You can also try using different material and textures, running silk, lace, or even latex and leather along the neck.

If you’re in the mood for more, consider using a suction toy. Toys like suction toys, which are typically used for other forms of stimulation, can also be used on the neck, adding variety and excitement to your play.

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Breath Play and Choking

For those who are comfortable exploring more intense neck plays, light choking or breath play can be an option. However, it’s vital to prioritize safety when engaging in these activities. Remember that, this body part is a delicate area, and incorrect pressure or techniques can be dangerous.

If you and your partner are interested in exploring breath play or choking in neck fetish, make sure to set clear boundaries and agree on a safe word. Start with understanding risks and safer alternatives to choking and breath play.

Only then you may proceed with light pressure on the sides of the neck, avoid pressing on the windpipe. As always, communicate continuously throughout the experience to ensure both partners are enjoying the play without discomfort.

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Final Thoughts

Remember, if your first experience with a neck fetish doesn’t go as planned—maybe you felt a bit awkward or things didn’t go smoothly—don’t give up on it just yet.

If you think it could be more enjoyable with a little more practice or a smoother setup, it’s definitely worth trying again. Like most new sexual experiences, exploring a sexual fetish or trying something new like neck play can take a bit of getting used to, and that learning curve can be part of the fun. Just make sure to prioritize what feels good and keep safety in mind at all times.

Before you dive in again, it’s important to know the basics of neck play and how to safely explore a sexual fetish like a neck fetish, as discussed in this article.

What Else is Out there?

For more articles on body part fetishes, take a look at our Body Category. You’ll find topics like boobs fetish, hair fetishism, and body worship, all about how different areas of the body can become the focus of sexual attraction.

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Olivia Moore Author & Content Creator
A passionate storyteller with a deep curiosity for exploring the world of kink and fetishes. My background in psychology drives my fascination with human desires and the stories we rarely share. 🖤✨